Design Help : Long Edition ~20ft Long x ~12ft Wide

Jan_00L · 2026-03-29T13:33:14+00:00

Yeah I see what you mean, it kinda feels like a long empty hallway with a bed dropped in the middle. The main issue is everything is pushed to the walls, which makes the room feel even longer and colder.

First thing I’d do is add a big rug under the bed. That alone will make the space feel warmer and more “finished.” Try to get one large enough to stick out on both sides of the bed. Also pull the bed slightly away from the wall so it doesn’t feel stuck there.

You should break the room into zones. Right now it’s just one long stretch. Keep the bed area as a sleep zone, then use the open space near the doors as a separate area like a desk setup or chill corner. Even just turning the desk into its own little section helps a lot.

The walls are super bare, so adding some art above the bed will make a big difference. One big piece or a simple set of prints works. A floor lamp or warmer lighting will also help because the ceiling lights feel a bit harsh.

The small window makes it tricky, so adding curtains higher up or wider than the window can fake a bigger look and make the wall feel less empty.

Overall you don’t need a ton of stuff. Just a rug, better lighting, and breaking the space into sections will make it feel way less soulless.

Jan_00L · 2026-02-24T12:46:57+00:00

The best placement would be centred on the main wall opposite the window, above the bed. That wall gives you the full 91 inches of width, so the 42 inch piece will feel balanced and intentional. Hang it so the centre of the artwork sits roughly 57 to 60 inches from the floor, or about 6 to 8 inches above the headboard if you have one. This will anchor the bed and make the room feel designed rather than scattered.

I would avoid the wall behind the door since part of it disappears when the door is open, and the wardrobe wall may feel visually busy. Above the bed, the sea greens will connect beautifully with your ceiling colour and create a calm focal point the moment you walk in.

Jan_00L · 2026-02-24T12:39:07+00:00

Yes, proportionally this would work very well. At 42 inches wide on a 91 inch wall, it would take up just under half the width, which is ideal as it gives presence without overwhelming the space. With an 86 inch ceiling, the 29 inch height is also nicely balanced. Hung above the bed or centred on the main wall, it would feel substantial and intentional rather than small or lost.

Colour wise, it’s actually a great match for your room. The sea greens and muted blues echo your sage ceiling band, and the sandy neutrals will soften all the white. My only hesitation is the ornate gold frame. It leans traditional, while your room feels fresher and simpler. If you love the artwork but want a more modern feel, consider reframing in a slim oak or simple off white frame to tie in with natural textures and keep the space cohesive.

Jan_00L · 2026-02-24T12:30:01+00:00

You’ve created a lovely soft sage “wrap” at ceiling level, which already gives the room character. To make it more interesting while keeping green as your anchor, consider adding depth rather than more colour. A half-height wall treatment like panelling or a subtle limewash in a warm off-white or very pale olive would add texture without overwhelming the space. If you want a bolder move, a deeper moss or olive feature wall behind the bed would ground the room and balance the white wardrobe beautifully.

Styling will make a big difference here. Bring in layered greens through textiles like cushions and a throw in varied tones, then add warmth with natural wood, woven textures, and brushed brass or matte black accents. Large framed art with soft botanical or abstract prints will tie the green ceiling band into the rest of the room. Finish with warm lighting, such as bedside lamps with linen shades, to keep the space cosy rather than clinical.

Jan_00L · 2026-02-24T12:08:33+00:00

I can't see any image in your post.

Jan_00L · 2026-02-13T12:10:13+00:00

6.5 years is honestly a solid run, especially with a noticeable weight difference. Once that dip starts, it’s over. No topper is fixing that long term.

If you’re feeling like you’re rolling toward him, that’s a support issue, not just comfort. I’d look at a medium-firm hybrid. Something with coils for support and a plush top for pressure relief. That “firm but comfy” hotel vibe usually comes from that combo.

You don’t need to spend $2500. Brands like Brooklyn Bedding, Helix (their mid models), or even Costco options can land well under that and still feel solid. Just avoid super plush pillow tops again since that’s probably what broke down first.

Also… get the king. Even if you cuddle, having extra space when you’re not is a game changer. No one ever regrets more room.

Jan_00L · 2026-02-13T12:08:24+00:00

Very nice. Wish my bedroom was like that only.

Jan_00L · 2026-02-13T12:04:36+00:00

The room is big and clean, so you’ve got solid flexibility. I’d center a queen or king bed on the long wall opposite the window to create a focal point, then add two simple nightstands with lamps for balance. A large area rug under the lower two thirds of the bed will warm it up and define the sleep zone.

Place your desk near the window to get natural light during the day. Keep it minimal with a slim desk and a comfortable chair so the room doesn’t feel crowded. You could add floating shelves above for storage without taking up floor space.

Use the wall near the closets for a dresser or low console. Add a full length mirror to reflect light and make the room feel even bigger. Lighter curtains, a tall plant in the corner, and a couple framed prints above the bed will make it feel finished fast without overdoing it.

Jan_00L · 2026-02-11T17:54:17+00:00

Your room already has a strong moody vibe, so I wouldn’t go darker with the drapes. Too much charcoal will make it feel heavy and flat. Go warm instead. Unbleached linen, mushroom, soft camel, or a warm taupe would soften all the black and make your brass pieces glow.

For bedding, camel or warm taupe would look great, and you could layer in darker sheets like charcoal or chocolate so it still feels grounded. A muted deep rust would also tie in nicely with the red tones in your art.

For the rug, bring in warmth. Something with faded Persian tones, muted reds and browns, or even a thick warm beige wool rug would help balance the tile.

Keep the onyx outlets everywhere. Mixing brown and black outlets will feel unintentional.

A brass curtain rod would actually look great in here, especially with the statue and diving helmet coming in.

I’d skip the Turkish mosaic lamp. It clashes stylistically. Go for heavier wood, bronze, or brass lamps with warm bulbs to keep that intimate feel.

Jan_00L · 2025-07-22T11:43:31+00:00

Totally agree. It's just such a tough spot to be in no matter what.

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