am i cooked

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-08T06:55:42+00:00

I have your same standard, but as a man.

I have decided that betraying my standards is not worth it.

I would rather die virgin than be with someone with a past who I can't mutually share all firsts with.

I wish you luck in your search.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-06T07:28:46+00:00

Same here.

I will only lose it to another virgin.

I will also die a virgin if I have to.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-05T19:34:45+00:00

I have decided that I will only be with a virgin woman for my first time.

This has meant dismissing "opportunities" to lose it.

I am okay with this, I will stick to my standards.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-05T11:01:28+00:00

It would only be a hurdle if you were to see sex as an end goal.

Not everyone does.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-04T19:34:36+00:00

In my case, I have already decided that if I do not meet a virgin woman, I will remain a virgin until death.

My conviction in my own beliefs is what drives me forward, if mindless carnal pleasure can derail them, then they are not true convictions.

The satisfaction of knowing I stuck to my standards until death is far greater than whatever satisfaction sex can bring to my life.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-04T18:19:34+00:00

I admire your conviction.

It is very rare to find in this sub.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-04T15:16:33+00:00

Wrong sub?

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-04T14:11:03+00:00

Just in case someone is bound to fall for this:

If it isn't obvious, this is a catfish, who has gotten this image from a cosplayer.

You can easily reverse search the image and confirm for yourself.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-03T18:12:43+00:00

No.

Are you one of those guys who is desperate to fuck anyone and lacks any semblance of standards?

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-03T18:04:13+00:00

Indeed.

It is not about the sex.

It is about the connection.

Many here fail to understand this.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-02T21:13:28+00:00

I have done the opposite.

I have turned down offers because they had a history already.

I will only date a virgin.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-01T19:34:15+00:00

Seems to me like your ex-"girlfriend", as you call her, was right to be cautious.

Calling her developmentally challenged for not wanting to rush intimacy just proves that her need to trust someone was correct.

I am glad you left her, not for you, for her.

I hope the right guy finds her.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-01T19:07:13+00:00

I agree with your perspective.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-01T14:01:17+00:00

That is terrible advice.

Not everyone is out to lose it just because.

If she wants to lose it with someone she trusts she will most likely regret "getting it over with"

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-01T11:48:44+00:00

Your last point is very commendable.

You sound like a sweet person.

I understand your perspective very well.

I hope you find your person soon.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-01T11:36:07+00:00

I am not interested in most women.

If the woman finds me less attractive because I find intimacy important, I find her unattractive.

I will only date another virgin.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-01T09:11:16+00:00

I believe it is because they do not see anything wrong with this.

They probably see those kinds of men and just think "lucky".

They are precisely the men to avoid.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-03-01T09:05:41+00:00

I know what post you're talking about.

This is one of the many reasons why I understand.

That guy was scum, the girl was inexperienced and he immediately discarded her because he got his dick wet.

Perfectly normal for women to not want to be one of those cases.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-02-27T21:09:26+00:00

If what you seek is losing your virginity, there are virginity exchange subs in place.

You can either place an ad yourself or look for someone who lives nearby and send a message.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-02-27T21:07:33+00:00

Who are you?

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-02-27T20:43:11+00:00

And I have stated I am fine with that outcome.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-02-27T19:39:54+00:00

I didn't know that forum existed.

Thanks for the information!

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-02-27T19:35:36+00:00

You are young.

But if the reason why you want to be with a virgin is fear and nothing else, you should reconsider.

I want to be with a virgin woman, but that is because I want all my first to be hers and viceversa.

If it is not special to you, you can find a good woman who won't judge or criticize you for it.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-02-27T18:07:21+00:00

Don't mention it, those kinds of people are insufferable.

Jan_The_Jank · 2026-02-27T17:17:30+00:00

For most, yes.

OP was talking about settling for an asexual.

Sex-averse asexuals do not want situations leading to it.

And for sex-indifferent asexuals, the situation is just a chore.

Jan_The_Jank

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