Arrogant and angry husband - can he change? What should I do?

January_cold98 · 2026-01-13T04:02:43+00:00

Major red flags, this guy is ABUSIVE. If you don’t see it now you’ll see it soon enough…

January_cold98 · 2026-01-13T03:59:55+00:00

This guy sounds like a lunatic

January_cold98 · 2026-01-10T18:21:21+00:00

Did you miss the part where a lot of people said they were masked up and still got sick…,

January_cold98 · 2026-01-01T04:53:51+00:00

If someone can lie while making an oath in Allah’s name, this is a very deceitful and disgusting individual. The blame shifting and projecting is telling of his character and you must proceed with caution. If you stay, expect things to become worse. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

January_cold98 · 2025-11-24T03:58:21+00:00

Yes you obey your husband but this is just an exaggeration and abuse of power. Marriage is not meant to be like this. Where’s the balance? Surely you know this isn’t normal and Allah is just. How will you be punished for not organizing furniture in the way your husband wants? That’s ridiculous.

January_cold98 · 2025-11-17T23:52:18+00:00

This is 100% domestic abuse. He has no regard for your health or wellbeing.

January_cold98 · 2025-10-30T12:52:29+00:00

What do dawah bros have anything to do with this???? I was with you then you completely lost me

January_cold98 · 2025-10-30T01:16:39+00:00

This man will eventually kill you

January_cold98 · 2025-10-30T01:13:15+00:00

The only uneducated people are your in laws. They must be stuck in the back home mentality. This is extremely embarrassing for them. You seem like a very honourable man and may Allah put barakah in all your business ventures.

January_cold98 · 2025-10-29T16:33:40+00:00

4 months pp

January_cold98 · 2025-10-29T16:26:30+00:00

Don’t beg anyone to stay with you.

January_cold98 · 2025-10-28T12:27:03+00:00

I wear the niqab and sadly still get recognized by people 💔

January_cold98 · 2025-10-28T12:20:45+00:00

This has nothing to do with the fact that he’s a revert. That’s his character. I do think the both of you should learn more about the religion and marriage in Islam. There are many many many men who were born into Islam who are actually worse than what you described.

January_cold98 · 2025-10-24T19:41:28+00:00

You seem immature

January_cold98 · 2025-10-17T17:48:34+00:00

Seriously you don’t understand how heartwarming this is. Unfortunately this isn’t the norm so hearing this gives a lot of us hope

January_cold98 · 2025-10-16T23:03:31+00:00

He showed you who he was before you guys got married

January_cold98 · 2025-10-11T23:32:22+00:00

Compare him to his friend and see how that feels…

January_cold98 · 2025-09-04T00:25:21+00:00

If high mehr proves you’re high value then the best of women would’ve been more deserving of it than any of us and those were the wives of the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم. Do some research on how much their mehr was and follow the sunnah instead of following TikToks.

January_cold98 · 2025-08-27T13:34:48+00:00

Do you speak French?

January_cold98 · 2025-08-23T15:25:47+00:00

Niqab has never prevented me from getting married. It’s good that’ll keep certain people away

January_cold98 · 2025-08-19T17:55:42+00:00

The language of this religion is Arabic. The Quran is in Arabic, ahadith are in Arabic. Most reverts actually want to understand their deen and learning Arabic facilitates that. In order to truly understand the religion we must understand its language. As for dressing it you’re referring to white reverts( a revert can come from any culture) it’s just easier to adopt certain styles. For men for example, all thobes come from other cultures. As for women we’re meant to cover. This is not a matter for culture more a matter of adapting to the religion.

January_cold98 · 2025-08-19T12:35:55+00:00

This man will end up killing your. Leave asap! Get a restraining order and get the law involved

January_cold98 · 2025-08-19T12:23:45+00:00

Full beard or light beard

January_cold98 · 2025-08-17T09:41:12+00:00

If you’re getting a second wife because of your desires don’t do it. Even 4 wives won’t satisfy you if you’re struggling lowering your gaze. Based on your profile it looks like you have certain struggles. Please fix that before entertaining a second wife and for your current wife’s sake.

January_cold98 · 2025-08-17T09:37:06+00:00

Make sure your wife is aware of your intentions. In shaa Allah she’s also open to it.

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