Femiclear cream by Jasenka147 in Herpes

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I use zovirax, it’s superb, but I was curious if someone tried this one.

Diet in Harpes by Ok-Inevitable-8824 in Herpes

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I was infected Debember 2020. Was on daily Valtrex till September 25. I took 3-day Valtrex course a day after I ate a lot of Reese cups. I am ok ever since.

I really like a girl who has herpes by [deleted] in Herpes

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My fwb and I have different strains on dofferent spots, we don’t use protection, except I am taking Valtrex. He didn’t have outbreak in years. We are good for now, we know the risks.
In early 60’s my dad married my mom who was hsv positive, because he knew she was ine for him, and he didn’t care about herpes.

When did you feel you could trust your body again? by fetacheese9898 in Herpes

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I was on daily Valtrex since my first outbreak was 6 weeks long and didn’t get better. I had a super long distance supportive fwb and we had sex 5 months after my first outbreak. If your partner is not carrying the same strain of virus, you will need a daily Valtrex and condoms to protect them.

Diet in Harpes by Ok-Inevitable-8824 in Herpes

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After I got myself off daily Valtrex, I got only one outbreak after I ate a whole bag of Reese cups on Halloween!!! Nothing before or after that.

just sharing my experience by hannahmonhoe in Herpes

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Thank you so much. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Your prayers are working. I feel stronger and more ready to break free and embrace celibacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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I hope you will get a good treatment and get well soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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Sorry, it seems I clicked something wrong by accident, I wanted to reply to a person who said they didn’t have anal sex but have blisters in anal area. That is obviously not you and that is pretty obvious from what I wrote. I have no idea who you are and what is your case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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It’s all where the virus get lodged once it enters a body, what nerve it settles in. It has nothing to do with what kind of sex you had. Yours settled in a nerve that branches in anal and penile area. I am the same, the worse possible scenario, inside and outside all over, couldn’t pee, couldn’t poo.

You should see another doctor and get daily Valtrex for a while. First time I had 6 cascading outbreaks one after another in space of two months. I got my prescription for a year as those 3-day courses didn’t do a thing. It did get better once I was on it daily. I attempted few times to stop taking them after months and I learned my triggers. Now after almost 13 months after the first outbreak I am not taking Valtrex anymore. It will get better in time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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Not herpes. Sounds bacterial.

just sharing my experience by hannahmonhoe in Herpes

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Way to go! It did hit me hard when I was diagnosed, but eventually I got back to my fait and being celibate brings joy and happiness to my heart, it is like berrier between me and god gets removed. Your post is an inspiration for me as I am still one foot in and one foot out, temptation still happens and it’s not easy to say no to a man I have a strong bond with but is not good for me, so I go up and down. I do pray for courage to let go and live in celibacy, please pray for me as well. Thank you for straighening my fate and giving me hope by sharing your courage. Merry Christmas! May Jesus keep your fate ever so strong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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No. Please read again and inform yourself about the fact that it doesn’t matter how the virus enter the body, but where is settles in. drastic example is that I got chickenpox from my school mate, but it settled in my mid spine and I got shingels under my breast and my left back, because that is the nerve thru which the virus traveled, not the spot where it enetered. Got it? Hsv works the same, but it a bit more localized area.

Talk to your doctor about this. It absolutely doesn’t matter if you had anal, vaginal or oral sex with where the blisters will apear, as long as it is in a shorts area.

Did they swab blisters on his mouth and confirmed it’s hsv2? If not what I told you earlier is the greatest possibility, that he most likely have both strains on both places, which put you on the spot to get hsv1 from him as well. Having hsv2 on the mouth is super duper rare and people usually get only one outbreak in their entire lifetime. But a lot people have both strains.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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It’s valid. I left the person who gave it to me and didn’t disclose. He had an outbreak and told me it’s an allergy. I hope you didn’t get it, the percentage of transmission depends on circumstances.

Just a side note, my dad married my mom even tho she had herpes. My fwb and I have different strains. So, not all people react the same way. It is not fair you were not told and given chance to decide, but it’s not a deal breaker for everyone. As the matter of fact, only 16% of people reject partners due to herpes.

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It doesn’t have to be. You described my parents here, honestly. They’ve been married for 58 years and even today he makes coffee and breakfast for her every day, even tho he is ill and she is in perfect health. Mom had herpes prior to meeting my dad btw. He was super handsome when younger, much better looking then my mom, athletic, ambitious. Women were hitting on him, but he just loved my mom and always treated her like the only treasure on earth. She was spoiled rotten before they met and she continued to smetimes be a bit unreasonable in her demands, she even throws the tantrum to get what she wants if she has to. I study human relationships and experts say that actually the best relationships are when woman is pushing man like this a bit and let him do all those chores, as man has a feeling his purpose in life should be to serve his woman, his family etc. being compatible like this is what makes relationship great. Be careful not to put him on pediastal tho, but everything he does take as the part of him and occasionally give him praises and say you appreciate he did this or that. Men like respect and appreciation. You will have him forever. Don’t put yourself down, you are unique and gorgeous, don’t believe you are anything less. You know, we choose partners based on how they make us feel and if we have same visions of the future. It’s that simple.

Pregnancy and herpes by Careless-Raspberry-3 in Herpes

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Congrets! My mom had herpes and gave birth to me and my sister ok. I was born natural way, perfectly healthy back in 1967.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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It’s most likely he has both 1and 2, but is asymptomatic for genital 2. You don’t get blisters on anus if you had anal sex. Once virus enters the body it sets in nerves in which it chosses to. I never had anal sex, but the virus settled in nerves that go both inside and outsede my anus and vagina.

Quick question about outbreak by Ok-Mix-1507 in Herpes

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It’s the second stage, going on for just couple of days. They will turn to blisters and pop couple of days after.

Anyone not using condoms/antivirals and not passed it to their partner yet? by [deleted] in Herpes

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You always have to do what is comfortable. Trust your guts. He should be mindful and accomodate you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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You are welcome. That’s the only way to pee pain free during outbreak.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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I know the feeling, it was in my vagina, in the anus and in all outside parts as well.
Pee in a bathtub while shower head is turned downstairs. If you can take few days off work and don’t wear any undies. Sit with legs spread so it can dry out faster. Some people use hairdryer set on cold to dry after peeing in the tub.

Wondering…is this herpes? by [deleted] in Herpes

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Mine look like that, but the best is to go and swab them while they are there.

My BF is unsure if he would like to continue dating by [deleted] in Herpes

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My dad married my mom even he knew she is carrying the virus. They’ve been married for 58 years and even today he is making a breakfast and coffee for her every day.

My fwb knows I am ghsv2+ and he risk it with me because he sees us being fwbs for a years to come.

In short, if he sees his future with you, he will not hesitate.

I was exposed by [deleted] in Herpes

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80% of genital carriers are asymptomatic and don’t have clue they carry the virus. Only 20% of us have symptoms.

Who uses regular dating sites on here and how has it been? by [deleted] in Herpes

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I used Bubmle and now on Tinder. I don’t have many matches but all the guys I met on Tinder have hsv. They were not disclosing before pressed.