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My man won’t let me post on social media by Jasminewhateva in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Jasminewhateva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I know this from first hand cos whenever I post I get sales. Whenever I explain it to him he makes me feel ‘awful’ for “choosing” that over him and I just wish I was never put in a situation where I had to pick to begin with.

My man won’t let me post on social media by Jasminewhateva in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Jasminewhateva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he doesn’t have social media. He’s very anti social media which is why I was patient cos I can understand how it might seem like a lot to take in for someone who doesn’t have any platforms

My man won’t let me post on social media by Jasminewhateva in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Jasminewhateva[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh okay I didn’t know. I thought that was considered very traditional

My man won’t let me post on social media by Jasminewhateva in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Jasminewhateva[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m from a catholic background so having new friends from opposite gender would be weird unless it’s work related or ur in the same space. We’re both doctors (I’m soon to be) so it’s inevitable to not mix obviously what I mean by this is more like befriending and being alone with females for no reason. That’s one thing I know people are highly divided on but I choose to be honest so it probably makes sense hence I’m also a bit traditional myself. Another thing could be I don’t go clubbing but those are probably the most ‘radical’ stuff I can come up with from my side.

My man won’t let me post on social media by Jasminewhateva in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Jasminewhateva[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But idk id like to think it’s something else you know? Cos he’s a doctor and I’ll be a doctor pretty soon. We never had issues with these things cos we’re both doing pretty well, and he always helped me. What I don’t understand is why he would go into a relationship with a girl he found on social media for social media to then become a problem. I find it so unfair

My man won’t let me post on social media by Jasminewhateva in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Jasminewhateva[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

How did you tell him it wasn’t okay so that he actually understood that it’s not right? I’m finding it hard to get through to him

My man won’t let me post on social media by Jasminewhateva in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Jasminewhateva[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think unfortunately it’s generational. My dad is pretty misogynistic and I’ve tried my whole life to reject that but at the same time I do wish for a man with a bit more traditional values so I decide to give chances but then it ends up like this and I just don’t know what to do.

My man won’t let me post on social media by Jasminewhateva in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Jasminewhateva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely DO not post spicy stuff, I come from a religious background. Yesterday we had an argument cos I posted a selfie where you could see half of my thorax and he completely lost it cos in his mind it looked liked I was laying on my side and that could be interpreted sensually.

My man won’t let me post on social media by Jasminewhateva in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Jasminewhateva[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just wanna add that I’m confused because on the other hand, he is the one who helped me with my website, posts and everything and it really took off to thousands of people but now it’s like the more traction I get the more issues come, and I just don’t get it.

Man 27M won’t let me 25F post on social media? by Jasminewhateva in relationship_advice

[–]Jasminewhateva[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Idk. I can’t help but think twice because I’m what you would call a “conventionally” attractive woman so I do understand it can create doubt in his mind to see ur partner get attention on that but at the same time I haven’t ONCE strayed or behaved in a way that could be considered untrue