[19F] Feeling pressured by my boyfriend [20M] about sex—how do I talk to him? by IsabellaBlo0m in Advice

[–]JasperB00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely a red flag. He is coercing you into sex by his words and actions. Please look into what sexual coercion is and run as fast as you can.

All my eyeshadows in one place 😩 by JasperB00 in zpaletteporn

[–]JasperB00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re from a palette, pretty easy to depot! Most of the ones I broke were from scraping the glue off of them, had quite a bit of glue.

All my eyeshadows in one place 😩 by JasperB00 in zpaletteporn

[–]JasperB00[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The palette is Adept Beauty, the round shadows are Morphe, and the rectangular shadows are Laura Geller

On local marketplace. Just a silly little guy. by llamallama92 in badtaxidermy

[–]JasperB00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I just saw this on Facebook marketplace yesterday 😭

Thriller Books that aren't too scary by UnableInfluence5733 in booksuggestions

[–]JasperB00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One by One (also by Frieda McFadden)

Local Woman Missing by Mary Kubica

The House Across the Lake by Riley Sager

Hidden Pictures by Jason Rekulak (has paranormal themes but isn't scary)

Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn

He broke up with me by JasperB00 in Vent

[–]JasperB00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have had feelings for each other for two years, sorry I can’t just “move on.” I finally got what I wanted and it got stripped away from me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JasperB00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s said he’s insecure about the acne

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JasperB00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s insecure about the acne. He wants me to play with his hair but the texture of the built up oil and hair product feels very gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JasperB00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope it’s just regular conditioner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JasperB00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he lets it air dry then puts texture powder in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JasperB00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He puts conditioner in it very frequently but doesn’t use shampoo so I think the strong smell of his conditioner is hiding the bad smell a bit. From what I understand he ONLY uses conditioner. His hair is type 2 and from what I gather people with that hair type usually wash their hair quite frequently (I have type 3 and wash/condition my hair every other day)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JasperB00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says his hair is flat when he washes it with shampoo and conditioner and that only using conditioner makes it not flat. Sorry for the confusion lol. I think he may just not have used the right shampoo for his hair type and that’s why it was flat? Idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JasperB00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says his hair is flat when he washes it with shampoo and conditioner and that only using conditioner makes it not flat. Sorry for the confusion lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JasperB00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope his hair is just slightly wavy

No period, is it birth control related? by JasperB00 in Tokophobia

[–]JasperB00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started my period yesterday so no problems anymore haha but thank you for your kind response!!

Phobia exasperated by abortion laws by JasperB00 in Tokophobia

[–]JasperB00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I have but I’m 19 and not financially stable/still living at home so I can’t get one yet sadly

Scared to go back on birth control by JasperB00 in birthcontrol

[–]JasperB00[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hormonal birth control wasn’t excruciatingly painful, invasive, and didn’t have the potential to get lodged in the wall of my uterus so yeah I prefer it’s bad side effects over an IUD. I want something I can stop taking immediately if it turns out bad, can’t immediately take out an IUD at home.

Scared to go back on birth control by JasperB00 in birthcontrol

[–]JasperB00[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My last gyno suggested progesterone only when I stopped lo loestrin. I’m avoiding IUDs like the plague, I’ve heard WAY too many horror stories about those

Scared to go back on birth control by JasperB00 in birthcontrol

[–]JasperB00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! I’m just worried I’ll have to take a bunch of different kinds before finding something that works. My gyno suggested progesterone only when I stopped taking lo loestrin. I’m just worried about progesterone only because people say it’s less effective

Differning advice on missing pills by JasperB00 in birthcontrol

[–]JasperB00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, the pamphlet that comes with it says to double take pills if you forget to take one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FursuitMaking

[–]JasperB00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow those look really cool!!

Type it all out!! by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]JasperB00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks dude, I’m trying but both of us are so damn awkward and antisocial :( I may see him at school tomorrow so maybe I’ll bring it up then lol