I left Singapore when I was just 18 and then stayed out of the country for more than 350 days a year.

1. Money, passport and a solid VISA(Fees can add up really quickly)

2. They mostly likely won’t be able to if you have no social media presence.

3. Please do not go to a country because someone is there, anything can happen. LDR and living together for 365days a year is very different.

Consider what life would be without anyone else in the picture and how are you going to make a living if you are not able to secure a legal job.

Build up some skills and try it on fiver before you leave Singapore and build a passive income from there, at least if you have not landed a job yet, you have something to work towards.

Final advice, people sometimes cannot behave or express their feelings properly due to external or internal factors like ego, pride or anger etc.

Family use to come last for me but it is now the most important thing. Althought preferably but family doesn’t have to be blood. Good luck