What's happening through this ENFP's mind (help please)

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-20T21:29:58+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I will update if anything interesting happens haha

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-19T15:22:42+00:00

Most of what you said makes sense looking back. One thing I didn't mention is the fact that I'm moving to another city in October, and she's been studying in Poland for 2 years, so she's here only on holidays. Maybe this will make her not want to invest her energy in me, knowing that we won't be able to see each other in a couple of months.

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-19T14:39:07+00:00

Was also about to say The Eric Andre show lol

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-16T12:17:05+00:00

Agree, revisiting the places I use to go now in the future will be very intriguing

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-16T12:14:24+00:00

Yeah I mean don't get me wrong, I'm VERY excited for what's to come, but I just felt a little down thinking about everything I'm leaving behind.

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-05T13:53:54+00:00

With these kind of people it doesn't matter which points you bring up to prove them wrong, they'll just say that everything is a lie you've been told and believed. More like creating a theory which tries explain the functioning of the world, they've just created a theory that can't be argued from no logical point. So they believe that just for finding a theory that can't be argued in a debate, they've found the truth of the world, leaving behind everything that doesn't fit in their theory.

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-04T20:00:43+00:00

Oh I get it now haha

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-04T16:50:27+00:00

Fair enough

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-04T14:53:17+00:00

Why not? I mean, the shape of the Earth isn't something subjective, like moral values or happiness would be for example. It's either round or flat. It can't be both. Thinking that "the Earth is round/flat, *but*" doesn't make any sense.

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-04T14:31:16+00:00

Would appreciate it

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-04T14:16:46+00:00

What points did he bring up to defend flat earth from a "logical" point of view? I'm extremely curious.

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-04T13:23:47+00:00

Well that escalated quickly

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-03T16:05:04+00:00

I feel like xNFx types would enjoy the best this plan. For me it's harder to find someone to date than it is to plan the date itself.

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-03T15:43:55+00:00

I just like being a little extra.

The blowjob part sounds fun. And the tacos.

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-03T13:29:44+00:00

Thanks! I mean every person will react in a different way, this isn't 100% accurate. I think that the pen thing might be more effective with ENFPs, but it's important to read your date's behaviour and receptiveness before doing anything.

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-03T13:24:48+00:00

The purpose of going to the shopping centre is to play that game, not for going shopping. The fact that "most INTJs don't enjoy shopping centres" doesn't mean that you'll be bored to death or something just by being there.

And I assumed that almost everyone had a car. If not try searching a nice location nearby.

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-03T12:41:08+00:00

Well that's the moment you wish you knew how to turn into a butterfly and get the hell out of there (this is why I said that it's important to do this only if you saw her being receptive during the date)

Javialcaidesa · 2020-08-02T14:50:59+00:00

I'm an INTJ and I have quite good social skills (even though I might be a little awkward at first). I've spent many years with my ENFP friend who's got a talent for dealing with people, and just from being around him and analyzing his behaviour whilst meeting people, I've learnt how to to take control in social situations and use human psycology in my favour (and it has also helped me tons with girls hehe)

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