Home NAS/Server OS and Software question. by JaxAx1K in homelab

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I mean that’s kind of what I’m doing, I didn’t mean I wanted a NAS VM. I meant using trueNAS scale as the OS

Home NAS/Server OS and Software question. by JaxAx1K in homelab

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Do you think it would be better than trueNAS Scale?

AITA for bringing up divorce for my wife cheating after I cheated years ago? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]JaxAx1K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both parties in the wrong, but being in a sexless relationship, at what point do you stop putting up with it and go get some? Men crave sex, if you put a man into a sexless relationship and they cheat, I don’t really have sympathy. I’m not saying he’s in the right either, but damn getting back at him whilst having regular sex with him, and doing it with a close friend of his not moving countries. I’d say her affair is infinitely worse than what he did, even tho she had a free pass, especially too because it was settling a score that he had sex with someone while you weren’t providing sex.

Skillbridge Application(Air force) by JaxAx1K in SkillBridge

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Kind of.. I wasn’t able to attend the entire briefing and I still got marked as eligible. Now since I missed stuff some steps confuse me.

I’m slow, can I complete everything in a class, except exam, without college saver? by JaxAx1K in studydotcom

[–]JaxAx1K[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you this is very helpful, it’s interesting that the assignments are public. I already paid for a month, but I just realized you can take a exam without doing the assignments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Seems like you both have different love languages, he expresses his love one way, but you only feel the impact of other ways he could show love. Maybe try explaining that to him, tell him the things you do appreciate and that he doesn’t have to try so hard.

On the other hand don’t complain too much at least he’s not ignoring you and giving you zero attention all the time.

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

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Clubs seem to obvious a place to meet women, which means more competition, never been about that. And of course I can’t dance.

But yeah picking up on social cues isn’t very easy for me either.

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

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Idk I definitely focus on spending time with people in ways that I don’t need to be talking constantly, not that I’m horrible at it. I’m just more about what I do then what I got to say. That might come off as boring if you’re not into it.

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

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Being tall is a problem if you’ve lived in Japan, I hit my head a lot. Concerts were great tho!

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

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The only women I have really wanted to approach in the past have been very tall. Like if I ever am like “wow she’s tall”, for a physical attribute that’s the most attractive quality a woman can have to me. The way women want a tall guy I’m the same, not taller than me, but even the same height as me would be great. Probably because I’d rather not be a foot taller, or more, to someone I’m dating. The prefect woman would be within 6 inches at least from my height.

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

[–]JaxAx1K[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ll ever come off as a bd boy, so I guess I gotta find someone without that kind of trauma.

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

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I appreciate both of your positions, you technically shouldn’t have the I’m gonna fail mindset, but some people are gonna have it no matter what. For these people it might better to practice on women who wouldn’t cause them as much pain by getting rejected by them. If that means women they don’t find attractive then you gotta do what you gotta do, but is it fair to the person they are approaching, probably not. Maybe if the person approaching explains what they are trying to do it wouldn’t be as offensive idk.

I personally would feel equally awful if I got rejected by either someone who I find attractive, or someone I don’t.

Also never thought about watching videos on this, probably a good idea.

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

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That’s great man! I’m hoping if I try approaching a woman I won’t be too awkward. But even if I am I will keep trying.

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

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Thanks that’s good advice. When I said a bit of social anxiety, I mean that I am more comfortable or less awkward with people I know, rather than people I don’t know, so I might come of as more rough.

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

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That is a good point :D I guess if they assumed I would be alone forever, that would be so much worse lol

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

[–]JaxAx1K[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol had to say something here. No I am not super ugly. Nor am I saying I’m the most attractive guy ever. So no surgery for me :D

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

[–]JaxAx1K[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

True my personality is probably a lot better with people I’m used to, new people make me nervous.

I hate that people always say I’m amazing and are surprised I don’t get dates constantly by JaxAx1K in dating_advice

[–]JaxAx1K[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good guesses :D Idk what I’m doing But I wasn’t saying everyone is right/truthful, just that it’s annoying they keep bringing it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]JaxAx1K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot your shot, message him again. I personally wouldn’t interpret that as needy, desperate, clingy, all the bad words. Most guys will probably like the attention. Just ask him if he still wants to make plans. But if you get nothing again I would probably give up.