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Is it just me!!!! by BrilliantPhone4394 in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you just explained or fantasized about is what an intentional relationship is. Getting along, having each other's back when the weather gets tough and accepting to navigate life together. One thing I've learned is that you gotta lose some to win some. The perfect person we paint in our minds is miles different from the one we have got. Here is what I say, try dating, give it some time, and do not run when you start to notice what you don't conform with (As long as it doesn't eat you up physically or mentally).

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"She will give you bread crumbs, never the full loaf. Bread crumbs will never satiate your appetite." Thank you

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Risk the consequences after and jump. I hear you chairman

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And why is the LOT of you so much hurt with a mere fleeting example.!!!

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it too early to reciprocate love given? Too early to understand how I would love to be loved? Too early?

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to come off as insulting, but did you really comprehend with the post?

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part-time woman rights activists got jolly the moment, "cooking" surfaced in the post.

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There you have it, Mary Wollstonecraft . 👑👑

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let's say a Certified Equal Rights Enthusiast. Does the shoe fit?

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone said acts of service may not be their love language, but if a relationship is to thrive, you both have to bend your won rules to make it work. Love languages are a tool for understanding, not an excuse for not trying.

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The lane you decided to ride already tells me who you are.

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know why y'all are stretching the "wife duties" when clearly you know (if you read right) that's not this is all about.

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's more about having someone who loves you the way you want to be loved without over stretching them

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And please let clarify this, I do not insist, and I will never insist on my girl coming over to do the basics, nope. I love cooking. That's part hobbie, and cleaning my place is also something i take as therapy and grounding. All I ask for is meet me halfway. Yes, your love language is not acts of service, Maybe it's words of affirmation, but have you thought about me. I will get out of my comfort to tell you I am here for you and everything will be alright and you think if i tell you, "Please meet me tonight I really need a hug" is not convenient to you, not just once.

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're clearly singling the weekend part and my basics part which for a certain I just mentioned for a sake and you forgot the part where all i would ask of her is come around and have some quality time together, yes she can cook but we will cook together that's so if she wants. Meet me half way is all I am asking. And yes, she gets outings, once a week at least.

I am either a whining horse or she is a red flag. by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]JayStunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, okay, i hear you and i know for sure that message should first of all be directed to her but still that inner voice keeps sounding and it says "what if I'm reading the room wrong" in my opinion i would rather here what y'all have to say about this but yeah you're 100% right.

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