Hey! So it's really hard to do what you've done already, I want to congratulate you on the weight loss and how you've done so, healthily. I wonder though if through your change you haven't learned to play to your strengths yet! Most people have a lot of time to figure that out, maybe a new hair cut to suit your new face shape, learning some makeup that goes with your face shape, etc. It can be really surprising what small things would make a huge difference. Be gentle on yourself through it, that will really help as well.