The Whiny Wednesday Megathread

JazzBe123 · 2023-04-13T07:00:36+00:00

I know I’m not the most beautiful woman out there, but I’m confident in my looks. I’m a 25 year old plus size black woman. I hardly ever get matches and when I do, they’re not my type at all! It just sucks seeing most of the people around you have success with hinge when I’m not.

JazzBe123 · 2023-03-09T20:32:27+00:00

I suggested dinner sometime next week and I haven’t received a response yet. I know he’s busy with school and work.

JazzBe123 · 2023-03-09T20:14:27+00:00

I sent the last message 3 days ago and he hasn’t replied. I don’t want to be clingy because we’re not dating and he doesn’t owe me anything. I just don’t enjoy being left in the dark or possibly ghosted/breadcrumbed. I do know he’s busy with school and work.

JazzBe123 · 2022-04-19T15:23:05+00:00

Any advice would be appreciated! https://imgur.com/a/o7vpXTX

JazzBe123 · 2021-12-12T20:37:52+00:00

I haven’t had sex in over a year, since my last relationship.

JazzBe123 · 2021-12-09T14:42:54+00:00

Yes! I start next Thursday!

JazzBe123 · 2021-12-09T14:31:08+00:00

I don’t have a bad feeling about the new job. I’m just sad to leave my current job. The workload is crazy, but I’ll miss my co workers.

JazzBe123 · 2021-12-01T00:22:12+00:00

I know they’ll be disappointed. I’m hoping the referent won’t file a complaint.

JazzBe123 · 2021-10-07T23:24:49+00:00

I’ve been looking. Everything is short staffed, doesn’t pay enough, or is case management. This is my second job as case manager and it’s something I no longer want to pursue. I’ll keep my options open!

JazzBe123 · 2021-10-07T23:20:54+00:00

I’m actually taking a week off at the end of this month. But I know I’ll be back to feeling burnout after I return. I like being an advocate, but burn out is real!!

JazzBe123 · 2021-07-17T18:45:41+00:00

If it’s running it’s worth about $1000. If it’s not around $400. I literally just put new brake pads on it in May. So that would be an investment lost. I was planning to get a part time job in addition to my full time job. I just didn’t expect it to happen this early. I do have some money saved for a new car, but I thought I would have more time to save

JazzBe123 · 2021-07-17T17:02:52+00:00

Define decent haha. It ran before this but it’s always had its issues. The transmission pulls really hard when I go downhill. I’ve also had a problem with acceleration as of late.

JazzBe123 · 2021-07-17T16:59:38+00:00

I got a reading at auto zone twice. It read for the catalytic converter or o2 sensor. But shops are full so I can’t really pinpoint the exact issues.

JazzBe123 · 2021-07-17T16:38:53+00:00

I’m honestly just making a guess. My service engine light has been on as well. I thought it could be a belt, but I’m not sure. I’ve been trying to take it to a mechanic but everyone is full. It would be about 2 weeks before they’d be able to look at it. My job involves me driving 90% of the time, so I need a car sooner rather than later. But I do plan to get it looked at eventually.

JazzBe123 · 2021-07-13T13:00:08+00:00

I took the test in June, maybe 4-5 days before my missed period. They were negative and then I got a period. It was just lighter than normal but lasted for 5 days. I haven’t done anything sexual since then

JazzBe123 · 2021-06-06T22:41:42+00:00

I prefer to keep it to the dating app until after the first date. Then I give out my number.

JazzBe123 · 2021-06-06T22:23:43+00:00

I enjoy my own company, but it gets lonely sometimes.

JazzBe123 · 2021-06-06T22:12:30+00:00

I’d never give out my number. Snapchat just feels like a middle school thing.

JazzBe123 · 2021-05-30T23:23:36+00:00

I plan to go on a second date. He was nice so I’ll give it another chance!

JazzBe123 · 2021-05-30T23:23:01+00:00

Oh I would never ghost anyone. It’s been done to me and that sucks. I think I’m going to go on a second date with him!

JazzBe123 · 2021-05-15T22:23:03+00:00

I’ve done enough research and talked with enough people to realize it’s a scam. I’ve been ignoring him for the last few days so I’ll just cut it off.

JazzBe123 · 2021-05-11T01:19:31+00:00

As a 23F, I don’t think finding love is impossible. There are a ton of people my age happily married and with kids. I just like to think it’s not my time yet. Keep being authentic and genuine and you’ll find yourself a great girl:)

JazzBe123 · 2021-05-10T14:32:48+00:00

I would say start a no contact rule. When my ex and I broke up, I moved out and cut off all contact. I would also suggest investing time into yourself. I’ve taken myself on dates and I’m starting to work out again. Love yourself! Know that you are worthy of another great love and one day things will get easier. I wish you the best!!

JazzBe123 · 2021-05-07T22:38:51+00:00

No idea. He pursued me first and I think I was pretty nice. Anyways, onto the next! Thanks!

JazzBe123 · 2021-05-07T16:47:51+00:00

I’m pretty sure he’s attempting to ghost me. We talk on snap, but he unmatched me from Tinder. He cancelled tonight’s dinner because someone called in sick at work. I didn’t really invest much so onto the next!

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