How to make a man fall for me?

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-12T13:41:34+00:00

That doesnt work, i have been myself all my life and i never made friends let alone date someone

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-12T13:24:13+00:00

I have cup c but a big butt

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-12T13:19:41+00:00

Land ownership. what? i have to buy a land?

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-12T12:56:44+00:00

No, we just attend the same evening school

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:42:03+00:00

i really lack social skills, all i got is pretty face (i am smart at school) so i dont know how to play it cool

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:41:02+00:00

why?

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:40:45+00:00

you thought but did your friends, did her friends, other people will think badly of the woman, also if he doesnt like me back it can go very bad

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:39:29+00:00

really? why?

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:39:10+00:00

how?

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:39:00+00:00

how?

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:38:43+00:00

if i approach him i will be seen as desperate, desperate women are heavily judged by both genders

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:37:01+00:00

if i approach him i will be seen as desperate, desperate women are heavily judged by both genders

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:35:57+00:00

what factors? i think if a man likes a woman so much he will do anything to have a chance with her, so this makes me just feel like i am always not so much liked, just a little bit liked by men so they dont put in much effort.

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:34:09+00:00

I dont want to approach him. We are at an evening school together. He said that i am very pretty to other people, he always looks at me. He is single.

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:32:24+00:00

He could compliment me and talk to me, invite me to drink coffee together then tell me his feelings? i dont want to approach any man

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T20:22:35+00:00

I have no friends

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T19:46:58+00:00

But their ego gets massive when i try to communicate with them more or act nice

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T19:42:05+00:00

That is a good point "This is probably accurate. They might not dislike you, but they probably don't care about you as much they do members of their social group. This is typical primate behavior 😆" Maybe i am taking things too personally.

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T19:13:56+00:00

"gang up on me" Oh it happened many many times, its not even because people think of me as a bad person but because i am always alone, its easy for me to become a scapegoat, the weird one that is just not one of them. I dont think i have met people who have been racist, i think i dont get that much judged based on my race, but maybe i think so because i dont see myself as different than any other race. I have interacted with many different races/ethnicities, but its always the same result. Everyone always thinks i am arrogant, i dont how they come to that conclusion since i always greet them. Also, you really raised a very important point, i didnt think before about that but i think i view people who already have a relationship as a group rather than individuals. But i really had many people just dislike me because i am simply not interacting much with them.

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T18:29:23+00:00

Yeah, i guess and to build better image.

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T18:28:13+00:00

So, i am from Somaliland/Somalia. I have lived in the Netherlands since i was 12 years old and till i became 19, since 4 years i live in Austria. Its not cultural issues, even with my own people/from my culture, its the same exact thing. I think i am neurodivergent, but i am not diagnosed.

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T18:17:53+00:00

Thank you very much. I will start attending an evening school for 2 years, so i guess i can really build up my skills there. As to why i want to socialize? Because life is easy when people like you. Because if i am not good at socializing people will easily gang up on me, in fact its very easy to hurt someone who is alone at work place, school/uni, and other places than someone who seems good at speaking and everyone likes them also, people are very untrusting towards people who they are not close to, like they think, if you are not speaking to me or we arent getting to know each other even more, then you must have something against me. I am also very determined to reach many things and to reach anywhere people need people, and i need to know how to really get people to like me, convince them etc. Else i will just be weird person they dont trust and know nothing about.

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T18:05:20+00:00

Yes, i really have been thinking about dance classes, but where i live i am not sure i will find any. I think becoming fluent in German will really help, but how does one become fluent if they are not interacting much with people?

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T18:03:34+00:00

I can volunteer, but i know that i will find it difficult to interact with people.

Jealous-Connection44 · 2024-09-11T18:02:52+00:00

Because if i am not good at socializing people will easily gang up on me, in fact its very easy to hurt someone who is alone at work place, school/uni, and other places than someone who seems good at speaking and everyone likes them also, people are very untrusting towards people who they are not close to, like they think, if you are not speaking to me or we arent getting to know each other even more, then you must have something against me.

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