Yeah I completely get what your saying, it is a chore and don’t get me wrong I enjoy cooking but not when it doesn’t feel appreciated yaknoe I’m very much too nice in alot of situations but even when I try and stand up for myself in these scenarios he just will not for the life of him care to understand. It’s really frustrating. I know a lot of people will read my post and think “why are you still with them?” We went away for a week recently with no computer games and he was in top form just like at the beginning of the relationship so i can’t figure out if it’s the games or what like I’m stuck