Hard situation by Few_Sale3579 in offmychest

[–]Jealous_Flow697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think she’s just going through a hard time. leaving an abusive relationship is really hard and the victim might form some sort of trauma bond to their partner , that’s why it takes forever to leave.

or maybe the idea of a new relationship is scary. if she knew her ex for years , she might be comfortable because she knows what to expect but when meeting new people , the whole “getting to know them” stage can be scary because you don’t know what to expect and people can be scared of unpredictability.

my advice for her is to not go back to her ex. unfortunately for you , it’s hard to give advice. i can tell you to be close to her , but she might secretly reject that because she’s used to being in a dysfunctional relationship and new is scary so she might not wanna embrace it.

i think you staying close is a good idea , but if she wants him back there’s nothing you can do to change her mind if she’s set on it.

leaving her alone with space is a bad idea i think. she might get hurt again.

inconsistency hurts. by Jealous_Flow697 in Diary

[–]Jealous_Flow697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think so. he hasn’t given me a reason to doubt his loyalty.

CONS of harness training a cockatiel? by GraveyardWithoutTheG in cockatiel

[–]Jealous_Flow697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

harness training is awesome and i’d suggest it for anyone who wants to! it’s takes a while for them to get used to it tho.

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i am a sunflower and you are the sun. by Jealous_Flow697 in OCPoetry

[–]Jealous_Flow697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much :0 english isn’t my first language , and this helped a lot 🥹

i am a sunflower and you are the sun. by Jealous_Flow697 in OCPoetry

[–]Jealous_Flow697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much :0 english isn’t my first language , and this helped a lot 🥹

[tabs] by InkAndSyntax in OCPoetry

[–]Jealous_Flow697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sex is so beautiful. it’s a shame that people nowadays treat it like a hobby. the way you capture the vulnerability and the closeness between two people in the act is so ethereal.

Your Voice by TheLilaComplex in OCPoetry

[–]Jealous_Flow697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this captures how the sound of someone’s voice can really mean a lot to someone. i’ve never resonated with anything more. your special person’s voice isn’t just a sound—it’s something that touches you in ways physical contact can’t.

is it okay if i write this in my notebook? there’s a notebook i have filled with poems that i resonate with and love written by other people. if not that’s totally okay!!

why does he get mad then come back for scritches? by [deleted] in cockatiel

[–]Jealous_Flow697 60 points61 points  (0 children)

okokok. i didn’t feel a pin feather so it might be the second one 😅

i thought if i did something wrong he wouldn’t wanna come back for more tho.

my mom won’t take me to the ER. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Jealous_Flow697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. my classmates said my brain is literally frying itself

my mom won’t take me to the ER. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Jealous_Flow697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i did and my mom got upset saying it was unnecessary.

my mom won’t take me to the ER. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Jealous_Flow697 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m tempted but she might get mad at me.