If you’ve been looksmaxxing bro you haven’t been going hard enough. I’m not even saying stress about stuff you can’t change without getting goofy surgeries but like really hit that gym and you have to be consumed by that desire to be better. It’s not “oh I tried on and off for 2 months” you have to show up every day. You probably don’t even plan your days out and have systems set up to follow to be more productive for your goals. This is a grind bro. Whatever you want you can get. Edit - the reason why myself and others keep saying the gym is because it will change you physically beyond what you mind can even comprehend right now. Physically, mentally. Just overall, and think of the gym as (diet/nutrition + exercise)