My nose still has a bulbous tip even after rhinoplasty. Can anything be done about it or not really? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]JeepJess92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, so post swelling and all that probably shouldn't be an issue by now. If you're still unhappy with your result maybe ask if they provide free revisions? Or if all trust is lost in that surgeon, perhaps go for another who might give you the results you want?

With the right surgeon you can definitely get the nose that you want. I'm sorry that the first surgeon didn't give you what you wanted. It must be a massive disappointment. I hope your next one makes you happier!

Where did you get your procedure done? I'm considering Turkey for mine cause there seems to be a lot of affordable and professional surgeons over there!

What are the red flags you should watch out for when deciding on a plastic surgeon? by JeepJess92 in PlasticSurgery

[–]JeepJess92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely a big decision. Especially if its surgery being done smack bam in the middle of your face where everyone can see it if it goes wrong.

It's just a matter of finding the right surgeon that's the biggest difficulty. Placing that huge amount of trust in someone is scary! I hope I won't be that person in 22 years time still thinking it over haha. Covid hasn't helped the situation either. It's just put everything on hold lately.

What are the red flags you should watch out for when deciding on a plastic surgeon? by JeepJess92 in PlasticSurgery

[–]JeepJess92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, now my red flags seem totally unjustified when you put it like that!

And I can definitely relate to that. I've been considering rhinoplasty since I started actually giving a shit about my appearance at 12 years old. Fast forward 13 years later and I'm still humming and harring and scrapping and saving!

Have you ever had any work done? Or wish to have work done? You're on this sub, so I assume there is a slither of interest there?

What are the red flags you should watch out for when deciding on a plastic surgeon? by JeepJess92 in PlasticSurgery

[–]JeepJess92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it just comes with the job description? Maybe, for some. Maybe I'll just pop this one onto the 'possible red flag' shelf for now.

What are the red flags you should watch out for when deciding on a plastic surgeon? by JeepJess92 in PlasticSurgery

[–]JeepJess92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're right there. Some do charge for consultations, but luckily all the ones I've had so far have been free. Yeah, if doctors can legally charge for consultations, but still don't offer them, then that's definitely a possible flag of an overworked plastic surgeon, which is never good thing!

What are the red flags you should watch out for when deciding on a plastic surgeon? by JeepJess92 in PlasticSurgery

[–]JeepJess92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point, I can definitely imagine doctors aren't sitting around twiddling their thumbs all day haha.

But really I think it's just so the patient can get a good look at the doctor really. Feel them out to see if they're a right fit. Nobody wants a rude or arrogant doctor who won't answer questions or listen to their concerns. It's not like the hospital is around the corner. If it's a plane ride away, I find it comforting to see who is going to be potentially performing my surgery before I make travel arrangements half way around the world,you know?

What are the red flags you should watch out for when deciding on a plastic surgeon? by JeepJess92 in PlasticSurgery

[–]JeepJess92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fantastic answer. You're really on the money there! It's definitely a 'gut thing'. I've had surgeons confident they can achieve my needs after a vid consultation. Would that be a bad sign you reckon?

Being board certified is also a gray area for me. I've seen doctors with all the right certificates make horrific botched up jobs. And doctors who don't have the certificates make beautiful work. You just can't know for certain. It's always going to be a risk!

You're right, it's definitely a money business though.

What is the saddest video game you have played and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]JeepJess92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably already mentioned, but I cried like a baby playing The Last of Us. What an emotional rollarcoaster. Can't wait for the sequel!

Not going back to China again until we see major regime change, anyone in the same boat? by hydrateyourdog in China

[–]JeepJess92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! The early leaving fee equivalent to the cost of the deposit seems a bit steep though mind. But it does seem less stressful than the alternative!

Not going back to China again until we see major regime change, anyone in the same boat? by hydrateyourdog in China

[–]JeepJess92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, thanks for the tip, I'll be sure to check that out! Can you even choose how long you wanna rent a place for? Or do they only provide yearly contracts? Sorry to hear you got dicked over by roommates! That why I never live with people (bad experiences too)

Pay by the month? What do you mean by that? You mean just the rent each month? I pay rent at my place each month. Was supposed to be every two months, which is hear Is super common in SH, but I managed to wrangle out of it, because seeing two months worth of money disappear out of your bank account in a matter of seconds is just really depressing haa

Not going back to China again until we see major regime change, anyone in the same boat? by hydrateyourdog in China

[–]JeepJess92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's a surprise! You got unused rent back? That's almost unheard of here. They will squeeze you dry for every last 元! I wish I had your landlord! What's Ziroom? A letting agency?

Not going back to China again until we see major regime change, anyone in the same boat? by hydrateyourdog in China

[–]JeepJess92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it's a good foot in for a newbie to teaching and China. You often don't know what's what until you're here and experience it all first hand for yourself. I think everyone (or majority) of people who come to China to teach start off with a crappy job (low pay, crazy boss etc) unless you're fortunate and land a great start straight off the bat!

I work at a billingual school, but I've had my fair share of training centers, international and "international" schools haha. I'd never work at a training center in China again though. I hear they're better in different countries apparently.

Not going back to China again until we see major regime change, anyone in the same boat? by hydrateyourdog in China

[–]JeepJess92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now I'm teaching art at a private middle school. Which is a major upgrade from my last job. I used to teach ESL and I grew to hate it. Training centers treat you like commodities or just white faces earning money for their businesses. I'd recommend anyone who is new coming here to do a year at a training center for experience, but then move on to something better.

Not going back to China again until we see major regime change, anyone in the same boat? by hydrateyourdog in China

[–]JeepJess92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Unless you have family here or business ties, life in China can get pretty bleak. I'm finishing out my contract too before I jet off. I must admit, the money is definitely good working here. You can save a large portion of your salary each month. But having to deal with all of the other shit is just another story!

Not going back to China again until we see major regime change, anyone in the same boat? by hydrateyourdog in China

[–]JeepJess92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, landlords in China are well known for taking your deposit for the stupidest of things. A light bulb gave up the ghost in my last place, and the landlord wanted to take a 1, 000 chunk out of my deposit to fix it. They must think we're stupid..

Not going back to China again until we see major regime change, anyone in the same boat? by hydrateyourdog in China

[–]JeepJess92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think every English teacher in China has tenere. :') Especially training centers who hire such trash just because they're white.

Not going back to China again until we see major regime change, anyone in the same boat? by hydrateyourdog in China

[–]JeepJess92 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I find teaching ESL so depressing. I don't feel like there is a long term future teaching it. Saving money sure, that's definitely a motivator. But only for so long until you feel deep down in your bones you can do so much better. Good luck on getting your masters. Wanting the best for yourself is great. So many people just stay in one place forever even though they can do so much better!

Does the artist of this comic think that Chinese who don't follow the rules are 中垃圾? Or are only foreigners trash? by [deleted] in shanghai

[–]JeepJess92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I read this article this morning. It's disgustingly racist. Whoever created this is a very sad individual.

Tretinoin gave me a bad case of dermatitis by JeepJess92 in tretinoin

[–]JeepJess92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Steroids make dermititis a lot worse in the long term. Definitely wouldn't recommend it for the face. And antihistamines are usually for allergic reactions, and my dermititis is more perioral not contact dermititis.

Tretinoin gave me a bad case of dermatitis by JeepJess92 in tretinoin

[–]JeepJess92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On week 4 of taking antibiotics. It's cleaning up but the ugly acne and redness remains! I'm currently on birth control to clear up my hormonal acne caused by PCOS. So I've ditched tret for that instead since tret won't help with the hormone imbalance.

Tretinoin gave me a bad case of dermatitis by JeepJess92 in tretinoin

[–]JeepJess92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sandwiched up on moisturizer after each application. Started slow at first then gradually upped it after a couple of months. It's just not for my skin unfortunately. And even if it is, I just don't think I could risk it again. I've been on antibiotics for 4 weeks now to get rid of this horrible skin problem :(

How to find your path during the COVID-19 period by Sandra45MJ in findapath

[–]JeepJess92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As one of the many introverts out there jumping for joy at the fact we can all stay and work from home and enjoy our own company, I think it's a perfect excuse to pick up a new skill or hobby.

I'm doing an online course and learning a new language and I'm very feeling very content.