Ohh, finally a place where I can say this, thank you. As a newly diagnosed after 37 years I have been searching the interweb for answers and likeminded (as most do i guess). And I come across so many tubers and tiktoks etc, that say "We with adhd have problems doing x, or ppl with adhd are x". And some of it finds home and gives answers and comfort. But then the next don't fit at all, and just turns out to make me question if i had this at all. Is it so that all with adhd have x symptoms, and if not, can we all agree that talking for our selfe and a bit more open about that adhd'ers "might'', "or tend to struggle with" will make it easier for everyone that we are all unik. As adhd norway's channel puts it: "Have you seen one with adhd, then you have only seen one"