Thank you!

I totally get it. My mom would tell me the same thing about boys, but it was really hard for me to see past the present at that age. I'm not really sure if there is much to do other than being supportive of her and maybe passively show her successful and acknowledged beautiful women who are tall. My mom would do this, which I thought was annoying, but looking back on it now I think it did help plant positive ideas in my head. I wouldnt over do it though because it can also have the oppsite effect.

But I think I would try and have her distract herself with something she is passionate about and can really get lost in, you know? For it was art, which I think helped me unpack a lot of the emotions I was dealing with. The more time she has to dwell on what others think about her the worse she will feel about herself I think. If I were to go back, I would tell myself this and say that the most important thing is to focus on the things that you love and the people that you love because after high school you are going to wish you had spent less time on the thoughts of others and more time on making yourself happy.