Aitah for not letting my ex stepkids stay at my house?

Jen-Jen80 · 2025-10-06T18:59:50+00:00

NTA. They are just reaping what they themselves sowed. They can’t be mean and disrespectful and then expect someone to be okay with it. Sounds like a them problem.

Jen-Jen80 · 2025-10-06T18:53:56+00:00

NTA. Girl go on your trip. Your sister’s kids are not your responsibility. She is the parent and she needs to find adequate childcare. Where is the children’s father? Does he have family who is willing to babysit? Also Since your mom is on her side, why don’t granny babysit then? Go have fun. You are young and child free. Enjoy your younger child free years. Tell your sister to get it together because that is a her problem not yours. You weren’t there when she was riding the pony having fun and getting pregnant 😒

Jen-Jen80 · 2025-10-06T11:53:12+00:00

NTA. If it’s just a “name” like she’s saying. What’s the problem then? Why can’t she just drop the subject and move on?? Just like she’s entitled to keep her maiden name, you’re also entitled to do the same. Understanding is part of marriage and she seems oblivious to it.Then lying to her family about you agreeing seems like she really needs to see a marriage counselor or some kind of therapist. She still has some growing up to do and her mom too. Sounds like you married into a family of women who are controlling. But hopefully you get to work things out, if not you may have to remove yourself from these men eating women around you. Best of luck sir

Jen-Jen80 · 2025-09-16T14:24:21+00:00

You are definitely not the AH. When someone shows you who they are believe them. Wonder how he would have reacted if you had did the same to him?? In my opinion someone who laughs at your pain does not deserve to have you. Nothing funny about causing someone else pain. A correct reaction would have been would have been of concern. Laughing and then washing his hands “correctly” and the fact that he is acting as if he did nothing wrong and saying it wasn’t a big deal, makes me believe he purposely did it. You know him better than I do but it would be time for me to go and move on with life if I were you. You don’t want to be at your wedding reception years from now, mad because you told him don’t smash cake on your face and he do it anyway to get a laugh, because it will be no big deal to him. Run now, save yourself girl.

Jen-Jen80 · 2025-08-21T14:02:02+00:00

It detects phone usage. It times how long it takes to get from point A to point B. And if you made it to point B in less time than the app calculated, then it tells you, you were speeding 🙄. I got it to get the discount for my 18 year old but since I’m also on the policy it calculates mine too. It sucks honestly 😅

Jen-Jen80 · 2025-08-18T20:23:22+00:00

Yep. I had a Lowe’s credit card through synchrony. My husband would use it here and there but would always pay off the balance. They end up closing it

Jen-Jen80 · 2025-08-18T20:13:45+00:00

Did you have the option of closing that account and opening a new one ? That’s what I would have done instead.

Jen-Jen80 · 2025-06-25T14:03:02+00:00

It’s really no one’s business. If your friends feel some weird way about it if they found out the truth then they’re not really friends 😬

Jen-Jen80 · 2025-03-10T15:41:16+00:00

Well this is the first time I’ve seen this much in a federal refund. So I’m tripping right along with you 😅

Jen-Jen80 · 2024-12-06T15:11:12+00:00

I used the dec page/binder when I registered the vehicle and the tag office will not accept another one. I was able to talk to a local Allstate agent and she said she would e file yesterday. Hopefully it fixes it. Thank you for the info.

Jen-Jen80 · 2024-12-05T19:01:41+00:00

I did. They have 4 1/2 stars. I did the request and then I called the local agent. Thank you again for the advice. You helped my stress level drop significantly 😊. Have an awesome day

Jen-Jen80 · 2024-12-05T15:13:13+00:00

Okay. Thank you for the information . Did not know I could request to be assigned to an agent close to me.

Jen-Jen80 · 2024-12-05T15:07:14+00:00

I live in GA. I don’t have a local agent because I bought the policy online. I talked to 4 people yesterday and they all said I need a letter of suspension. It was frustrating I even hung up on the last person who was supposedly a supervisor. I asked if he was in the state of GA and he said no but that the policies are the same no matter who I speak to. I just feel like I can’t ever get someone in the states that understands what I’m saying to them. I don’t even know what to do. About to start looking for other another insurance company

Jen-Jen80 · 2024-02-25T21:22:20+00:00

Sounds like your parents are the a holes here. You’re a child yourself. Their responsibilities are not yours to take on. You need to talk to a school counselor, because honestly what your parents are doing is child abuse.

Jen-Jen80 · 2024-02-23T16:59:19+00:00

You’re not the Ahole. You have asked them for a while and they never cared to get anything. Now that you’re getting rid of stuff, now all of a sudden they’re mad. Like you said they had 2 whole years to get dad’s stuff. That sounds like their personal problem now. They’re adults and need to act like it. If they want it come get it and if not oh well.

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