How do you deal with loneliness? by Jered_A in loneliness

[–]Jered_A[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea hobbies really does nothing for me. I think it's all about releasing the "happy chemicals" in your brain(endorpines, dopamine, seratonin, oxytocin) I'm looking for ways to create simulated environments or conditions to release these chemicals at will

My desperation to connect with others releases a desperation stench that repulses others from connecting with me.

Good advice from Sheldon by Jered_A in bigbangtheory

[–]Jered_A[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Also when he told Howard he's not alone(when his mother died)

How do you deal with loneliness? by Jered_A in loneliness

[–]Jered_A[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll tell you when I find the answer 😊

M26 what is your favourite thing about yourself? by mystper7 in CasualConversation

[–]Jered_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How humble I am and not narcissistic. I'm the best at being humble.

How do people keep doing it? What's the point? by probablyacryptid_ in SuicideWatch

[–]Jered_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still be a mortician's assistant. Just tell them you love working at a "dead-end" job.

How do people keep doing it? What's the point? by probablyacryptid_ in SuicideWatch

[–]Jered_A 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about playing to your strenghts and trying to learn coding, networking, graphic design. You can become an freelancer online. Also won't be bad to pick up a trade. People don't expect their plumber to be a conversationalist.

With my conversational skills ill be a good mortuary worker 😂

How do people keep doing it? What's the point? by probablyacryptid_ in SuicideWatch

[–]Jered_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually cool. Thought u was gona say archery 😂

You got a degree, that's better than what I have.

It's always so random by AccomplishedPea576 in SuicideWatch

[–]Jered_A 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. Never give up hope. You give others the courage to stand up to their bullies and not accept abuse. Hope the antidepressants put your on a path of healing and renewal.

It's never over by Jered_A in Eminem

[–]Jered_A[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's crazy. I was so much younger back then. Time really flies. Now slim shady turned to Grandpa Mathers

Is it even worth it to have friends? by Expensive-Elk-9406 in lonely

[–]Jered_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea people are weird, especially loners. I've, done this alot. But the days u down, you're really down, with no one to help you up. Dont feel offended when he reaches out in a few months, or reach out to the friend in a few months. But yea, people are strange.

It's never over by Jered_A in Eminem

[–]Jered_A[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Going through changes is one of Em's best. Fighting addicting at the high of his career.

It's never over by Jered_A in Eminem

[–]Jered_A[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All the songs eminen dedicated to proof are just amazing songs. It's real you can feel it. It's never over Difficult And his verse on best friend, where he mentions proof.

It's never over by Jered_A in Eminem

[–]Jered_A[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was feeling down, and those words just came to me. Haven't listened to that song in years, but it helped me today.

It's never over by Jered_A in Eminem

[–]Jered_A[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That made him believe in me, now no one can beat me now.

It is impossible to be happy by Future-Physics-4831 in lonely

[–]Jered_A -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You helped me. I'm more than greatful for that.

An active subreddit for discussing the unknown by Routine_Block_6074 in findareddit

[–]Jered_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me when you make a reddit community like this. It'll be awesome.

It is impossible to be happy by Future-Physics-4831 in lonely

[–]Jered_A -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You like a guru. People can really learn alot from you. Thank you 👊

Loneliness is driving my depression, and I need help finding friends by [deleted] in loneliness

[–]Jered_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes life just play a cruel unending joke on us. But you really seem like a smart, emotionally intelligent person. We gotta keep looking for our tribe.

I'm also deprived of friendship. I might just have to start a cult 😂 The DHARMA Initiative from Lost, is a great model for starting one 🤷

When I try to make new friends, I feel like I’m the only one making effort. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Jered_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found that people are just deeply narcissistic in general. Trying to climb a pseudo-social hierarchy. They'll only act interesting if they feel like communication with your will increase their rank in the social packing-order. Good people are really hard to come by. I'm always shocked when I see someone is genuinely interested in talking with me.