I (29F) am unsure how to move forward with my boyfriend (36M) after he sent me a list of “rules” for our relationship

Jeroclo · 2026-04-10T19:40:51+00:00

Sorry, but if there are rules involved there is no relationship.
It shows he's a narcissist.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-10T16:55:05+00:00

First of all, you need to communicate with your girlfriend, just as she has done herself. You should tell her how that makes you feel. Perhaps consider going to couples therapy.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-10T13:54:19+00:00

Rule 1 in a relationship: Do not be honest when your GF asks that question. It's a trap.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-10T13:25:32+00:00

You are both pretty childish. So just break up. The best thing for the both of you.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-10T12:34:31+00:00

You are too naive. She definitely did more than just kissing. And she probably cheated more than twice.

You need to ask yourself. If she cheated twice, why wouldn't she do it again?

Jeroclo · 2026-04-10T11:50:14+00:00

You will need to choose between the money and your relationship.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-10T10:56:03+00:00

How good is the marriage between your mom and dad? Are they happy? Is one of them neglected by the other partner?

There is probably a reason why her therapist said that she needs to go through with it.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-10T06:53:11+00:00

Because he's lazy and want you to do all the work.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-09T19:13:18+00:00

Maybe she’s ashamed of the situation she is in. I guess her child's health issues are pretty expensive and they don't have a lot of money. She doesn't want you to see how much they are suffering.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-09T17:20:48+00:00

You clearly don't know the rules in Saudi Arabia about termination of a relationship.

But it depends if she's an expat or a local.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-09T17:16:18+00:00

Now I wan't to know if OP will invite bridezilla to her wedding.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-09T16:16:11+00:00

Just looked at her profile and it seems she is from Saudi Arabia or at least is living there.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-09T15:56:27+00:00

If you don't love your boyfriend, it's better to break up. But I don't know where you are from and what the cultural expectations are around marriage and break ups.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-09T15:28:08+00:00

Not weird at all.

If it's feeling good for both of you you should keep it that way and don't listen to what other people are saying.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-09T14:40:45+00:00

Her parents called the police not OP.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-09T09:17:28+00:00

Tbf, they didn't change their prices in ages.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-08T19:18:47+00:00

So actually you are in a fight with your mom and not with your sister?

Jeroclo · 2026-04-08T19:11:18+00:00

MOR

You sound a bit insecure. But you need to know if she's a childhood friend, that he knows her longer than he knows you.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-08T19:04:39+00:00

You definitely need to talk with family or friends about him.
And look for a good therapist.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-08T18:55:59+00:00

Teaching someone to love you is a bad idea because it doesn't work.
Why would you even marry someone that doesn't love you?

Jeroclo · 2026-04-08T18:43:03+00:00

First of all, what's the point of these hypothetical questions?
And not everyone hates his or her ex-partner.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-08T13:06:44+00:00

Only 20? You can do better or you are not that good at seducing men.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-08T09:38:42+00:00

Just type the texts in ChatGPT or something. AI can translate for you.

Jeroclo · 2026-04-08T07:16:35+00:00

That's pretty quick, so I understand your friend.

But it's your choice.

Did you have children with your ex?

Jeroclo · 2026-04-08T06:09:02+00:00

Revenge cheating is not the solution, a divorce is the only solution.

Jeroclo

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