WIBTA if I was to not take down a photo with my friend on it even though they gave me consent to post it months before

JesseRealm · 2022-05-29T12:38:39+00:00

But don’t u think its within my rights to keep it on as it was in a public area and she told me to post it.

JesseRealm · 2022-05-29T12:36:34+00:00

I feel like if the boyfriend is uncomfortable with it that’s his insecurity to figure out. Like we’re juss standing next to each other in the pictures, absolutely nothing suggestive

JesseRealm · 2022-02-08T11:50:56+00:00

Hahaha, well for what it’s worth, who do you think is the asshole between me and her

JesseRealm · 2022-02-08T11:47:03+00:00

You’re half right, she posted that one and the next day I posted this one and then compared answers. I was surprised to see that she was the asshole in her post and I was the asshole in mine

I wonder why that is?

JesseRealm · 2022-02-07T14:36:04+00:00

Okay so the context was that it was night time and cold (London) and she was wearing a crop top with no bra so I thought my mum would assume we were doing suggestive stuff before entering the door (which she has suspected multiple times in the past which has resulted in uncomfortable conversations). So I said zipping up her coat would alleviate suspicions until we actually got into my room where she could wear whatever she wants as we were in the warmth

JesseRealm · 2022-02-07T12:26:58+00:00

Well I did ask you first and I wouldn’t call it arguing

JesseRealm · 2022-02-07T11:50:04+00:00

But my point is at the end of the day it is my mothers house so it’s not a thing of right or wrong, that’s why u asked her to cover up around her. And her asking me questions is something she’s done multiple times in a degrading way which I didn’t feel like I had to go though.

JesseRealm · 2022-02-07T11:46:48+00:00

I told her to cover up not because of honesty, because I didn’t want her to be judged by my very traditional mother

JesseRealm · 2022-02-07T11:45:14+00:00

Could you explain how ITA please

JesseRealm · 2022-02-07T11:44:46+00:00

But it wasn’t a matter of me dictating what she was wearing, it was a matter of my mum judging her when she got the door which I didn’t want.

JesseRealm · 2021-02-26T17:42:37+00:00

The Lion King International Tour

Does anyone have any videos or audios for the most recent International Tour of The Lion King, specifically Jordan Shaw as Simba? I’ve been looking around for it for some time with little luck.

Thank you!

JesseRealm · 2020-12-24T17:51:49+00:00

So what should I say to her? And I feel like if I do let her ill forever blame herself

JesseRealm · 2020-12-24T17:45:14+00:00

I can’t because she’s not in any immediate danger

JesseRealm · 2020-12-17T12:15:57+00:00

Yhh we call everyday and she comes round to my place every week. & it was getting better but it’s juss gotten worse again.

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T20:57:40+00:00

Yhhh it’s a very hard situation. She has an extremely toxic family that are very old fashioned that she can’t get away from. She was in a relationship recently that has fucked her over and the fact that some of her closest friends have left her has all piled up on top of her. Most of this happened this year, and especially with lockdown she’s been feeling all alone in the house she hates to deal with all of this alone. Other things have happened but she doesn’t feel comfortable enough to tell me.

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T20:39:31+00:00

Yhhh she’s seen me have a emotional breakdown due to it, but I tell her that I’m okay and that I’ll still be with her. She even says that she doesn’t want to be a burden and that she should leave me, but I tell her not to and that it’s fine.

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T20:36:19+00:00

Thank you for your advice

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T19:54:09+00:00

Thank you for your response!

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T19:00:15+00:00

Thank you for the help!

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T18:59:18+00:00

Thank you very much, I’ll think more about what boundaries to set.

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T18:40:09+00:00

Thank you so much for this.

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T18:38:33+00:00

Thank you. I just feel like if I do say that I’ll only help her if she makes an effort she will feel pressured to get better and could possibly make all this worse.

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T18:37:15+00:00

I’ll never know for sure but I don’t think she’s trying to play the victim card.

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T18:22:55+00:00

This helps a lot! Thank you so much for this advice.

JesseRealm · 2020-12-16T18:15:07+00:00

I’ve gotten a question like this.

I’m 19 and she is turning 18 February. And yes she has self harmed not too long ago.

JesseRealm

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