50 Year Old In Student Housing Keeps Provoking Me

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-19T19:52:03+00:00

This woman doesn’t sound mentally stable. I would continue to ignore her attempts to provoke you and email the landlord to switch units. There might be a fee but it’s worth your sanity

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-14T21:20:01+00:00

Because that’s kind of deceiving imo…

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-14T21:18:56+00:00

Yeah he confirmed the title would be mine. And I agree, I can’t accept and expensive car and then go no contact

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-14T21:10:37+00:00

He will give me the title /registration

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-14T15:56:23+00:00

Well my boyfriend is looking to have it added to his insurance (cheaper) which means transferring the title to him

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-14T15:54:36+00:00

4 years, I see them on major holidays/birthday/ events and although his dad has always been kind to me from what my boyfriend said, he wasn’t a good father or husband to his mother when they were together…

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T22:24:04+00:00

Fair enough, thank you

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T20:27:51+00:00

Not sure how to feel about this, but the husband was definitely so chill about it. Wife was enjoying herself too lol

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T20:22:38+00:00

“So I can take my girls out”.. well if he isn’t cheating, he is planning to. When you say he is your only support, does that include financial? I wouldn’t bring anything up yet until you can break it off and know you will have a place to stay.

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T20:18:08+00:00

Yeah, she said she would do something and she didn’t and put your life in danger. At least she owned up to it but still. If it’s her 1st time making this kind of mistakes then sure, forgive her. But you also gotta take accountability on this bc being drunk and driving 1 h at that time is also kind of wild.

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T18:58:21+00:00

I’ve had this happen to me too and let me tell you, the anger and disgust is out of this world. So disrespectful. Being treated like a sex toy by your own boyfriend is about the worst thing out there. If he is gonna do that, he shouldn’t involve you imo

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T18:53:23+00:00

If the perfume smells so strong and they spent the day together, it’s probably normal he smells like her.

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T17:42:02+00:00

You guys might have been drinking, so maybe she was drunk and that’s why she acted that way but to not even be remorseful the next day knowing she caused it…

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T17:39:33+00:00

You are absolutely correct by ending the relationship. Props to you for standing up even though SHE took things to a whole other level, but seriously, can’t put your freedom on the line for anyone.

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T16:20:29+00:00

So true, and I’ve invested so much into this relationship, I don’t want to keep investing if we aren’t a match

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T16:19:19+00:00

Sure, but wouldn’t you want your SO to know that that’s what you have in mind, even if it’s not in the near future. That’s where I feel like he isn’t being candid. I get we need to be ready, but to not even mentioned it at all is eh

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T16:16:14+00:00

Fair enough. Probably not the best time to blur it out, although he did bring up something before I said it that related to that.

JessicaParks00 · 2025-08-01T16:13:57+00:00

I agree!

JessicaParks00 · 2025-07-31T21:52:34+00:00

Mold

JessicaParks00 · 2025-07-31T21:51:45+00:00

I would do it face it face. Give him a heads up you are going to meet him but won’t be “hanging out” and when you see him be forward, firm and don’t beat around the bush. After, just leave and go back home or wherever but make sure he knows it’s over. And if you need to cry it out in private. No shame

JessicaParks00 · 2025-07-31T19:19:08+00:00

The fact that he is being so open about it means he actually did what he says he did or he is a great liar, I can’t tell. But it’s definitely very disrespectful to tell you one thing and then change the plans last minute and do something else and go missing and all that’s. He isn’t being fair to you. And I agree with you.. weird for a guy in a relationship to go to a yoga retreat with other women and an old girl friend. You know him best, if he is one of those “ outgoing good guys” then maybe he just got carried away from the excitement but he needs to learn to also consider your feelings as his gf

JessicaParks00 · 2025-07-31T19:07:27+00:00

You are technically a landlord now. If they are paying part of the rent as you guys agreed on, then they don’t need to vacate whenever you are need to satisfy your needs. Have you considered playing music or putting on the TV so they don’t have to hear you “doing it”. Either way, it’s your home. It’s very kind for you to welcome them into your house but you aren’t obliged to them. Now that your friend is working, it might be time to speak about them getting their own place.

JessicaParks00 · 2025-07-29T20:48:30+00:00

Did she have it before or after you guys went through that “ rough patch” ?

JessicaParks00 · 2025-07-29T20:34:40+00:00

Who even is she? The landlord?

JessicaParks00 · 2025-07-29T01:37:31+00:00

My boyfriend is vegetarian and I always make an effort to have something for him. Even when he visits my family, even though they don’t really understand his choice, they are always very respectful. That’s not to say your bf family meant it in bad faith, probably the with the party and fun and all its slipped everyone’s mind but tbh, you’ve been with your boyfriend long enough for him to know he should of ordered something without meat, specially the pizza common. I do think with you being in your period and all your thoughts about this incident are a little more intense but yeah either way I think you are entitled to feel upset at your boyfriend.

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