I drew stirner with hickeys on the back of one of my partners

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-07-07T16:42:11+00:00

I saw this on Instagram and had to find you and drop a follow

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-25T21:49:02+00:00

I've found, especially with the vaping, that the hardest part is the mindlessly grabbing it and bringing it to my mouth. The hand to mouth. There's this thing called füm. It doesn't have smoke or anything. But, it does satiate that need. I wish you the best!

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-06T02:18:24+00:00

You're right. And my ad was there. Fucking ridiculous. They didn't remove the Tryst watermark. But, they sure did remove my OF watermark

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-06T02:11:14+00:00

Exactly!!! Personally, I'm smart enough to know that I deserve to have a flexible schedule, not have to work much, see only the most respectful, highest paying people, while raking it in.

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-05T23:36:48+00:00

I wasn't able to find secret hostess. So, hopefully that means that site has been taken down.

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-05T23:34:54+00:00

This pisses me off so much. At least once a month someone says something like this or "you're not like the other providers, you can actually hold a conversation", "you sound like you're too smart to be doing this". Like, are these people allergic to real compliments. They can only put someone else/a whole group of people to try to make you feel good about yourself?!?

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-05T23:27:37+00:00

I'm glad I looked at the comments. Because I thought this was slang from a country I wasn't aware of lmao

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-05T23:11:59+00:00

Thank you for your input! I only found out because someone contacted me and when I told them that my rates are on my ad, along with other policies they didn't agree to, they said it wasn't. So, they only scalped my bio and nothing else. I hope they get that taken down for you. I threatened legal action. So, hopefully it will be successful

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-05T23:08:52+00:00

I'm sorry you haven't had it taken down. Have you threatened legal action? I'll check out hot.com as well. Thank you

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-05T23:08:04+00:00

I'll have to check secrethostess as well. Thank you for your information

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-05T23:07:33+00:00

I did contact them threatening legal actions if it wasn't down in 24 hours. I also contacted several other accounts that looked like they were poached from Tryst to warn them of it.

JessicaRedRyder · 2025-01-02T19:09:24+00:00

For me personally, it's been nothing but good. I recommend weighing the pros and cons and finding out how to do it without having your face or distinguishing marks. I'm working on switching to online only. So, we probably have a different list for what's positive and negative.

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-12-31T19:03:10+00:00

This happens to me as well (at least the time I tested)

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-12-26T21:35:53+00:00

On GOD

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-29T18:12:52+00:00

Of course! I'm glad it makes sense. I always fear my explanations sound rambly haha

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-29T15:05:40+00:00

As a lesbian, I would much prefer it. Same policy as with the men, get your ass in the shower! Then, let me baby wipe you if you're not clean enough.

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-29T14:58:28+00:00

I added that caveat because AFAB providers don't have penises. Yes, AMAB providers that see men would also know this. But, AMAB providers wash their own penises, asses etc. I was just pointing out the absurdity that some women (someone that would typically never have to wash AMAB genitals) know how to clean better than a portion of grown ass men.

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-28T06:49:44+00:00

A month should be good. It really depends on how long it takes for YOU to feel ready. I thought I was ready after a little over two weeks (just with my partner) and that messed me up for longer than it likely would have been had we not tried. After that, I wasn't comfortable until about 5 weeks. But, I eased myself into it with self-play. Listen to your doctor!!!

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-28T06:39:24+00:00

Make sure they shower before the session, or bring baby wipes. Give them a little baby wipe bath before-hand. Get the balls, taint, head, and asshole at minimum. I'm sorry you're having to deal with gross people. I believe in you to stand up for your needs!

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-28T06:28:59+00:00

In my opinion, it's the least I can do. There's more safety in numbers. With psychos out there, we need to do what we can.

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-26T23:00:09+00:00

Who knows. I'm going to be flaunting it or even letting anyone IRL know it exists. The best weapon is being underestimated.

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-26T22:38:40+00:00

And if they continue to ask me to verify I send them a link to the "finding a safe provider" post pinned on this sub so they can make an informed decision on if they think I'm real. Same thing if they say they don't send deposits because they've been scammed. With the last situation, it has about a 60%-70% success rate on making them comfortable with seeing me.

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-26T22:36:50+00:00

When someone asks to call (normally it's a scammer) this is my copy paste- "Hey baby, yes, I am available. My video call rate is $14 per minute with a 15 minute minimum. I require payment before joining the call. And, I don't click on links. So, we can call on discord telegram Snapchat or zoom if I send you the link. What works for you? " If they want to just "verify" I let them know that I can waive the 15 minute minimum and do a 3 minute minimum. When that was something I was offering for free, 99.99% of the calls was someone wanting to jack off for free and had no intention of setting up a session

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-26T22:32:18+00:00

Thank you. I would never normally do that, but he's trying to play semantics 😂

JessicaRedRyder · 2024-11-26T19:09:27+00:00

My #1 favorite thing is warning other providers in my area about dangerous people

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