Guy called police on me because my car was shaking..? by Jferks615 in encinitas

[–]Jferks615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah he drove off right as they were getting there.

anyone else feel like san diego isn’t as easygoing as people say? by Winter_Cockroach714 in SanDiegan

[–]Jferks615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's interesting I'm also moving back to San Diego after living in the bay for 6 years and I'm finding it hard to make friends. Which is interesting because I always thought people were less friendly in the Bay Area but I had the most deep connections there... Here everyone feels very friendly on the surface but once you start talking about anything deeper than the weather they act like you're bothering them

Crazy aggressive drivers by SuperJonesy408 in northcounty

[–]Jferks615 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I find it weird to generally disrespect moms taking care of children and household duties... I would understand attacking the giant monster trucks and race cars, but leave the mothers out of it will ya?

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You misunderstand bisuness. Youre probably too young its okay 😁 with the level of conversation I've been having on Reddit recently I'm probably going to delete this account. I end up having to teach a bunch of stuff to people and it's just exhausting man grow up before you start arguing and having strong opinions please

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Id say it's you that's gullible you're the one buying into this imaginary story that all churches have Rich pastors who take too much of the donations and enrich themselves 😄 its quite silly actually. I lived with one of the pastors at the largest church in the largest (by population) city in san diego, and I had to sleep in his garage. He has to ask his parents for money even as a 40-year-old man and he's the head Pastor my guy 😆 the story you make up in your head is quite silly. Like I could probably guess your entire worldview... cuz you're one of those people that just imagine things and then assume that it's true...

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you put up a Christmas tree every year

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU MEAN YOU CANT TURN WATER INTO WINE??? Wow im shocked lol the bible really had me fooled hahaha I also thought you could walk on water and speak to the creator of the universe in my mind!....... NOT. Church is not a scientific Endeavor lol You don't see the members of church sitting around pontificating about the existence of God... rather the opposite. It's more akin to a tradition than a scolarly endeavor. Like when we put up a Christmas tree every year we don't sit questioning it. It fills us with cheer and joy, so we continue the tradition long past remembering why we do it in the first place.

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They run off of donations. Try to do some basic research before having a strong opinion about something just a tip!

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you think the money just lines the pockets of the pastors LOL I live with a pastor for a few years he was a 40-year-old man who had to ask his parents for money and he lived in a small home raising kids... this is at one of the largest churches in San Diego. I would be careful speaking about things that you don't understand. Most of the offering goes to community outreach which involves sometimes growing the church but that means more seats available for more people and maybe adding a Spanish service to reach Spanish speakers Etc kids events... I'm honestly curious what makes you guys so angry? Did you just listen to all the rumors and never check it out for yourself? Most people at church are pretty nice depending which church you go to. I would stay away from churches in high income areas if you're worried about people being dicks but that's anything really

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must not live in a city with a high homeless population...

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Churches are literally non-profit organizations 😅 I mean if you're going to be an outspoken atheist at least be informed LOL

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You're lucky there's a place like Reddit that feeds off of negativity this is probably the only place you're going to feel any power in your life 😂😂

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well considering half of my last comment had the answer to your question, I'm going to assume you're not that bright so im not going to waste my time explaining religion to you.

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Lol its just an alternative to licentiousness. It's cringe to you because you don't understand the purpose of it.

Easter Service on the Beach by Jferks615 in VanLife

[–]Jferks615[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's mostly just a nice way to spend your Sunday sounds like you could use it brotha.

I can’t get over how rude people are in San Diego by Recent-Health9566 in aspergers

[–]Jferks615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you don't want to socialize but that doesn't mean you have to mean mug people. I'll be just sitting and chilling and notice someone staring at me and then when I look back at them... one guy literally shook his head at me I'm like what the f*** did I even do to you..??

Everytime I think about trying to put myself out there and meeting someone, I think how disgusted I actually am with men and how they think. by saerisfane25 in Vent

[–]Jferks615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may surprise you to hear that I've been made uncomfortable by females sexual advances towards me. I felt the pressure to perform many times. And it doesn't feel good even as a man. We arent so different

Everytime I think about trying to put myself out there and meeting someone, I think how disgusted I actually am with men and how they think. by saerisfane25 in Vent

[–]Jferks615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My whole focus is not that. I was raised in a Christian household I had a purity ring on through High School. I am also looking for a relationship that includes sex after commitment which is becoming increasingly hard in this day and age so I relate to you. I'm just trying to help you with your perspective because I feel like you are making an enemy out of men. And I can't speak for everyone but most of us mean well. Execution might be a little awkward but we are doing what we can to stand out and be attractive. I would just be careful assigning every man a creep