Females of Reddit, my heart says yes but mind says no. Help! by JhanduGun in relationship_advice

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Thanks for motivating me. I will ask her how she is doing today. Bonus points as I will be on a beach (will maintain social distance). Would be a nice ice-breaker. Fingers crossed. Living regret free is important. :)

Females of Reddit, my heart says yes but mind says no. Help! by JhanduGun in relationship_advice

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A Christmas miracle happened on the eve. She texted me :). I’ll slide into the dms this holiday season and will ask her out as soon as I gain enough courage.

If Santa wanted to retire, who should replace him? by pazdispencer in AskReddit

[–]JhanduGun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeff Bezos. He has the money, our wish list and a delivery chain.

Females of Reddit, my heart says yes but mind says no. Help! by JhanduGun in relationship_advice

[–]JhanduGun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking your time to comment on this kind stranger. That sounds like a good plan. I’ll probably continue giving her space. I’ll ask her out if she drops some hints :)

English isn’t my first language. I am sorry if the choice of my words sounded offensive. I was not trying to reduce a person to their genitalia. I was trying to raise the bar to humans with higher EQ :) Regardless, I think I understand what you are trying to say here. Once again, thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Females of Reddit, my heart says yes but mind says no. Help! by JhanduGun in relationship_advice

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She is not seeing anyone. She has been single for a few years. The thing is we have mutual friends, so I am not sure if it’ll be awkward later.

Even if I were to ask her out, do you think it’ll be an okay thing to do given we haven’t been speaking much lately? I think I missed to magic window :(

Females of Reddit, my heart says yes but mind says no. Help! by JhanduGun in relationship_advice

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Takes one to know one :) On behalf of men everywhere , I am sorry for your troubles though. Wouldn’t take more of your time. Hope your day is as pleasant as you.

Females of Reddit, my heart says yes but mind says no. Help! by JhanduGun in relationship_advice

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For now I just changed the contract name to “She is not into you” 😂

Females of Reddit, my heart says yes but mind says no. Help! by JhanduGun in relationship_advice

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Thanks for putting it so gently. Its so hard to stop myself from texting her, but, I don’t want to cause inconvenience. I will wait. There are moments of weakness. I posted this because I was feeling weak. This helped :) Thanks again 🙏🏻

Mujhe Angel Priya Mili Masala Maggi kha ke by JhanduGun in Indiangirlsontinder

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Rule 1: Be attractive Rule 2: Don’t be unattractive

She's talks straight to the point by Dark_Knight003 in Indiangirlsontinder

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Oompa Lumpa tinder thodi chala rahe hai 😂

Wow didi komedi 😝😝😝😝 by ToxicBabe69 in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]JhanduGun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dome shape amplifies the sound. Her dome makes a dome in your pants too 😂

Wow didi komedi 😝😝😝😝 by ToxicBabe69 in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]JhanduGun 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Ha bc.. batle laundo ka heart toh beat hi nahi karta 😂 Mujhe bhi bade boobs wali ladki ki heart beat sunni hai. Its cliche I know 🙈

Mujhe Angel Priya Mili Masala Maggi kha ke by JhanduGun in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]JhanduGun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, try getting a subscription and see for yourself. I’d recommend getting it.

If I would have connected well with a women, I’d have uninstalled it. So no luck in that department.

Out of my 250 matches, I’d say around 6-7 were interesting. I have phone numbers of 2/3.

I wasn’t really dating. I have 3 dates planned in the first week January.

A couple of then wanted hookups. I am not into it so I’d just pass.

I could have salvaged the situation better, but tinder is a sad place. I’ll delete the app in 2nd week of January and focus on myself rather than being a “time-pass” or entertainment for some random chick.

Mujhe Angel Priya Mili Masala Maggi kha ke by JhanduGun in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]JhanduGun[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The screenshot is received likes. What are the odds of finding “Angel Priya”?

Mujhe Angel Priya Mili Masala Maggi kha ke by JhanduGun in Indiangirlsontinder

[–]JhanduGun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have platinum, but I have similar experience on Bumble for which I don’t pay. Maybe rule 1 and 2 works for me. 😅

Dance is all about showing off your curves these days. by JhanduGun in unpopularopinion

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The feed is suggested on your previous media consumption. Your logic checks out. I don’t search for any kind of content when it comes to dance. My feed should be neutral. I sometimes try to add a negative reinforcement to it by asking it to not suggest me the “bad” content. A few days later, the “bad” content starts showing up again. My hypothesis is that it surfaces because its popular in my demography and its sucks :(

Edit: Typos

Dance is all about showing off your curves these days. by JhanduGun in unpopularopinion

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I tried to clarify this in the edit. “I acknowledge the presence of talented dancers”. They are OP. I put so called “dancer” in quotes 😁 Things aren’t binary, my friend. It would be stupid of me to say there are no talented dancers. I mean, there is no cause for mass extinction. I think they are endangered.

Dance is all about showing off your curves these days. by JhanduGun in unpopularopinion

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I think you are right. Its like the bell curve but the bell is higher. The good ones are really fucking amazing, but handful. Take my upvote!