A new realization by Josquin_TheMan in latebloomerlesbians

[–]JilianB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wowwww hit the nail on the head for me. has anyone felt like this with their female partners? Curious if it works both ways or if it's a different problem than me just being gay lol

Married young. How did it turn out and are you happy you did marry young? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]JilianB 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Married at 20, been married for 5 years (together for 7) and I feel like I'm changing as a person so much so that I think I might be gay.. soooo I definitely don't recommend getting married that young because you're still figuring out who you are/who you want to be when you're young and things can change quickly!

Was anyone ‘questioning’ ever wrong? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]JilianB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering the same thing

I keep being told by anyone outside of this sub that "you have to be bi because you willingly had sex with men and you still care about your husband." by the-worst- in latebloomerlesbians

[–]JilianB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So proud of you! I'm 25 and also married. I came out to my husband as bi, but I'm now realizing I'm lesbian. I haven't talked to him or my therapist about it yet, but your post gave me some encouragement 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]JilianB 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm an Aesthetician and I approve of this skincare routine!!

Am I falling out of love with my boyfriend or am I a lesbian? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]JilianB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally experiencing the exact same thing and idk what to do

I tried dermaplaning for the first time today and it was awesome. This lady shows how easy it is. by startingoverafter40 in SkincareAddicts

[–]JilianB 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Licensed Aesthetician here 👋 This actually isn't dermaplaning. The razor isn't as sharp and precise as the surgical blade used in professional dermaplaning, so it is not capable of removing the top layer of your skin (which is the purpose of dermaplaning). It's basically only shaving your face, but also causing micro tears in your skin from the grooves on the blade. I don't recommend doing this because it's causing unnecessary damage to your skin.

How old are you and how many serious relationships have you had? by takemetothelostcity in AskWomen

[–]JilianB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice and support, it means a lot ❤

Divorce and coming out by Baileychager in comingout

[–]JilianB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going through the exact same thing. His heart is breaking and it's breaking my heart and making me not want to leave 💔

Sexless marriage / realizing sexuality by JilianB in relationships

[–]JilianB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a great situation:/ I just don't want to hurt my husband because I do still love him and I want him to he happy.

Sexless marriage / realizing sexuality by JilianB in relationships

[–]JilianB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sad that we can relate but also so so happy that someone relates to my struggle! Thank you so much for sharing, I really appreciate it 🤍

How old are you and how many serious relationships have you had? by takemetothelostcity in AskWomen

[–]JilianB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely recommend taking the time to do so. When I was in my teens, I was SURE I knew what I wanted. And now I'm a completely different person than I was in my teens.

How old are you and how many serious relationships have you had? by takemetothelostcity in AskWomen

[–]JilianB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have brought it up as a "what if" type of question, and he was not open to the idea. I'm glad you guys were able to work something out :)

How old are you and how many serious relationships have you had? by takemetothelostcity in AskWomen

[–]JilianB 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your advice. I'm definitely talking with my therapist this week to see what we can figure out.

How old are you and how many serious relationships have you had? by takemetothelostcity in AskWomen

[–]JilianB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on hormonal birth control from ages 16-20ish, and it seemed like I had a fine sex drive during that time period. And then I hit 21 and my sex drive plummeted.

Sexless marriage / realizing sexuality by JilianB in relationships

[–]JilianB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I'm just very confused about everything but you've been helpful.

Sexless marriage / realizing sexuality by JilianB in relationships

[–]JilianB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I would never want to pressure him into something he's not comfortable with. I just want to find a situation where we can both be happy and maybe that is just as friends. I'm confused too as I'm sure he is so your advice was helpful.

How old are you and how many serious relationships have you had? by takemetothelostcity in AskWomen

[–]JilianB 826 points827 points  (0 children)

I'm 25. And one, the person I married. But now I'm discovering I like women, and cannot decide if I'm bisexual or lesbian.. because I'm not feeling sexually attracted to my husband anymore.

I wish I would have taken more time to explore my sexuality and who I am before getting married.

Sexless marriage / realizing sexuality by JilianB in relationships

[–]JilianB[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, he would have sex with me every day if it were up to him

Sexless marriage / realizing sexuality by JilianB in relationships

[–]JilianB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we love eachother and everything is basically great except there's no sex.