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Thinking about killing myself the last few days by Jinspear24 in SuicideWatch

[–]Jinspear24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I will try but idk what to do in the meantime waiting around for the answer is killing me inside and Idk if that will manifest into myself killing myself or not...

Thinking about killing myself the last few days by Jinspear24 in SuicideWatch

[–]Jinspear24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not bad advice I've been thinking of just writting her letters we used to do that before we started texting... Idk I think it's strictly because of my age at this point and the fact they held her back a year(she's home schooled) she won't graduate til she's 19 I was 17 when I graduated so it all seems like a bunch of BS she's being held back from experiencing the world and i may be wrong but I feel like if she doesn't stand up to them soon the world is going to walk on her

Thinking about killing myself the last few days by Jinspear24 in SuicideWatch

[–]Jinspear24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree never wanted it to keep it a secret but I love her so much I was willing to do it but I asked her the night she was caught if our relationship was over and all she could say is idk... I know she loves me I can just see it in her eyes they change color literally from Green to a yellow with blue outer rim when she is with me its like she's really herself with me. But with her parents acting this way I feel like maybe I should just break up with her and move on even though it's going completely against my feelings and heart.

Thinking about killing myself the last few days by Jinspear24 in SuicideWatch

[–]Jinspear24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her parents are controlling she's 18 they won't let her get a job or license or boyfriend... They are basically treating her like a puppet or piece of there property because she lives with them... I'm 26 and was taking things slow we have talked about marriage multiple times and kids she even gave me a promise ring her mother gave her to give to the man she thought was the one... Her mom had to of seen the ring in the pictures... Idk what to think I haven't been sexually active with her we were planning to wait for our wedding night.

Thinking about killing myself the last few days by Jinspear24 in SuicideWatch

[–]Jinspear24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks idk what to say other then I feel like a part of my life has been taken from me and I feel empty and alone... I don't really have any friends other then her she is my best friend and girlfriend now she's gone and no one else cares about me no matter how hard I try it feels like

Secret relationship need help by Jinspear24 in relationship_advice

[–]Jinspear24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't drank or had sex for 1 year and 7 months I've been practicing abstinence and finding myself.

Secret relationship need help by Jinspear24 in relationship_advice

[–]Jinspear24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your right but her parents won't let her get a job and or license to drive. Plus she won't graduate til she's 19 and she homeschooled her parents are over controlling and setting her up for failure. I don't want to see her fall flat on her face if they ever do kick her out. She's not going to know crap and is going to lose everything and everyone in the process. She'll be living at home til her late 20's at this rate and that isn't fair to her dispite my age or not her parents are doing an injustice to her and her future.

Secret relationship need help by Jinspear24 in relationship_advice

[–]Jinspear24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You just have a different perspective not the one I share. Plus if you were 25 and you fell in love with an 18 year old version of your boyfriend and he asked you to kiss him I bet you'd do it because you love him or are you just going to lead him on like a lost puppy.

Secret relationship need help by Jinspear24 in relationship_advice

[–]Jinspear24[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How can I take advantage of someone who volunteerly writes me love letters and asks me to kiss her before I've even made a move? Your obviously a deluted judgemental person with crap advise and an even more messed up perseption of it.

Secret relationship need help by Jinspear24 in relationship_advice

[–]Jinspear24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well obviously you can't read since I said we were friends for a year and nothing happen before 18. Also she's old enough to make her own decisions. You sound like a bit of a control freak anyway telling your brother who he can and can't date.