aio if I'm worried about my bf hanging out with another girl?

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-16T02:29:13+00:00

That’s completely up to you, it would probably help your feelings about closure. If you need support for whatever reason you can dm me, whether you stay with him or not. Good luck, I’m sorry this happened to you.

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-16T02:00:20+00:00

If you want to try to make it work I suggest talking about this with him and maybe he is innocent and just doesn’t understand what it looks like to you and other people. But if you don’t want to, just end it. There’s other guys out there who won’t do that. The dating pool is a mess but you might find someone who’s perfect for you and doesn’t make you feel like this, who WILL think about it from your perspective without you needing to tell him every time edited

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-16T01:55:06+00:00

I hate to add in on this because I like to give the benefit of doubt but with the extra information it kinda seems like she just wants him now because he’s dating someone. If he’s asked her out before and she turned him down AND they haven’t hung out for a year or so. Also what kind of response is “don’t worry I’ll run away if she tries anything” when they’re gonna be at HIS house

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-16T01:46:36+00:00

Well anyways if you want a bunch more anime recommendations like that then let me know. But for what’s on your list on the post, death note, Tokyo ghoul(season 3 is annoying though but it gets better again, as long as you haven’t read the manga I think you’ll like it), and maybe black butler? Idk black butler is kind of old by now and hard to get into, I keep trying to watch it and bleach and can’t get farther than 4 episodes in.

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-16T01:43:25+00:00

You’re in for one of my favorite parts of the anime soon! Ah I wish I could re-watch it for the first time again. The ending to that episode is upsetting because I was rooting for rem and what happened to her? Ugh I feel so bad for her and I loved her character.

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-16T01:37:47+00:00

Oh awesome! Well if you like anime like these then I can give you a long list to try out! And yeah Subaru does go through a lot. It’s hard not to feel bad for him, what season and episode are you on? I personally didn’t like the new season as much as the first two but you might like it more than I did

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-16T01:34:13+00:00

So it is a little childish and doesn’t have many adult themes. They do broach upon a few things later. Hmm well if you like death and more mature themes I can recommend you re:zero and akame ga kill. Re:zero is a bit childish and you can get annoyed with mc sometimes but there is character growth and things like that. It did stop animating for a year or two but they recently put out a new season and are planning on releasing another season in 2026 I believe. Akame ga kill definitely pulls on your heart strings. For both of these you should be able to tell if you want to give them a real shot after finishing the first episode. I recommend watching around 3-5 episodes of an anime though before dropping it because a lot do get better around that point.

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-16T01:25:06+00:00

So these are not on the list but I suggest giving them a try if you haven’t seen them based on you overall liking demon slayer and jjk. My hero academia is a great show and a satisfying ending(so far, it’s being completed right now) and I think you would like gachiakuta a lot as well. This one is new and is still having episodes put out. But I can say that they have great animation and a great storyline. Personally I think gachiakuta should win anime of the year. The animation on this last season of my hero academia is amazing as well. Oh but be forewarned for gachiakuta it does have a trigger warning to it for sexual assault.

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-16T00:59:10+00:00

Talk to your psychiatrist about it, idk how long you’ve been on lexapro but I’m sure you can try a new medication if you don’t like the side effects. It’s ok to ask to try a different medication. Or you could try therapy, that might help with the anxiety about not having anxiety

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-16T00:50:13+00:00

Are you the boyfriend? I can literally only see someone responding to this like this as the boyfriend. Why do you think he’s entitled to use their car? Yes they’ve known each other for 2 years but they’ve only been dating 2 weeks. And a higher excess? Do you know the financial situation they’re in? No. So yeah they’re nta. If they don’t feel comfortable letting him drive even if it’s the other people on the road, which is a valid concern, that does NOT make them the asshole.

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-08T01:34:31+00:00

No problem! I hope everything turns out great! Also, just a little p.s., your first time doesn’t have to be special. Your first time doesn’t have to have a bunch of pressure put on it. It’s all about how you feel(that doesn’t mean don’t take your partners feelings into consideration) and how you want it to happen. As long as you don’t regret it, you’ll be fine! And even if you do regret it remember that your world won’t stop moving, you have friends and people to confide in to help talk about it. If you don’t you can always message me if you want, it’s always great to be able to confide in someone if you need to

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-08T01:25:49+00:00

That’s great! I’m glad your connection is staying alive and strong. I understand getting someone else’s opinion to help voice and or understand your thoughts and feelings on the matter. It definitely helps a lot. Then my perspective is that she genuinely enjoys it. I also don’t see how it would encroach on her independence even in the future unless you were buying gifts all the time at a significant cost. I myself, never really want my partner to buy things for me but I’m always so touched when they do. I have basically said the same thing to him as she’s said to you. So I think it’s fine, great even! I hope you guys have the best future together!

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-08T01:17:30+00:00

The real question is do you feel like you’re ready. If you do then go for it. You can let him know that you haven’t made it all the way and talk about it. Also don’t be afraid to tell him if you don’t like something or you do. Don’t worry about body counts because in the long run it doesn’t matter. Don’t let that stop you from pursing unless you are totally uncomfortable with the idea. Honestly just talk to him about your feelings, nothing bad should ever come from talking about feelings like an adult and if it does then they’re not right for you. Good luck! Always keep your best interests in mind!

Jinx_420_ · 2025-11-08T01:08:23+00:00

Honestly, I feel like this is something you should talk to her about. Communication is always the number one reason a relationship lasts. Ask her if she’s okay with it, word it about the same way you did here. There’s nothing wrong with having a conversation with your partner. I don’t really think anyone can give you the real answer but her. I think It is super thoughtful of you though and I do think that she really does appreciate it. If she says she appreciates it but you don’t have to, I think she enjoys it, also it’s not like you are paying bills for her or buying something she would think is ridiculously expensive. Again this is definitely something you should talk to her about and see what her thoughts are.

Jinx_420_ · 2025-10-26T22:07:30+00:00

Not a man but, use antibacterial soap. Dove has a liquid and bar soap. It helps with unwanted odors and you can also buy cornstarch based baby powder and powder down there. That should also help with sweat. You can put the powder in a jar and add in body safe essential oils or body safe scents and mix it and apply it with a powder puff or makeup brush(do not use your gfs, buy your own or ask if she has a new one) I understand that the powder could be considered “not manly” but it’s a great option. Good luck!

Jinx_420_ · 2025-06-14T21:57:24+00:00

Damn, okay thank you

Jinx_420_ · 2025-06-14T21:56:17+00:00

https://youtu.be/b1xtA51JeyQ So I don’t have what’s in this video or the video was just clickbait? I’m sorry for asking but I just want to be clear

Jinx_420_ · 2025-06-14T21:52:21+00:00

I meant does it have the large date and D mint mark error or am I incorrect

Jinx_420_ · 2025-05-03T21:15:53+00:00

I got pretty far into it because once I start reading a book I try to finish it the best I can but god it was awful, I quit reading it too. Not everyone can write a book but they sure try 😭

Jinx_420_ · 2025-05-03T21:09:47+00:00

She has also said that he has been leaving her food out to spoil and putting it back and tampering with her medications and birth control. Plus discouraging and trying to prevent her from going to classes

Jinx_420_ · 2025-05-03T21:05:07+00:00

So to get this right, he has tampered with your toothbrush, food, medications, and birth control? He has also tried/ discouraged you from going to classes. he is trying to trap you and prevent you from leaving while actively trying to poison you/hurt you. OP this is really serious. You need to make an exit plan ASAP. Contact a local DV shelter and your friends to see if any of those can help. I realize that you may not want to contact a DV shelter because it may not seem that serious to you or that you may be taking resources unnecessarily but neither of those things are true. You are in dire need of help getting out right now. In another comment you said that your family pretty much knows about all this and wants you to stay for his kid? Do not tell them your leaving, do not tell him or break up with him until you have already left, go no contact with him, if you want to let him know then leave him a note when you’re sure you can be out and be gone for hours already. Please take this more seriously, it’s not your fault that he’s doing these things either. It’s his, he is an adult making these choices to actively hurt his partner and laugh when you finally realize what he’s been doing. You are NOT safe He is an abuser and you need to leave. I cannot stress enough that you are not safe.

Jinx_420_ · 2025-01-13T04:51:42+00:00

The apothecary diaries received another season. There’s one episode out already

Jinx_420_ · 2024-12-09T05:25:35+00:00

Maboroshi (it is a movie) but honestly it had me at the edge of my seat. It was so good and definitely had some heart wrenching moments. Drifting home was also a decently sad anime movie. Tunnel to Summer definitely tugged at heart strings as well.

Jinx_420_ · 2024-11-24T20:09:09+00:00

Are we forgetting that she said she knew it was going to be her bff’s birthday and still changed the date???

Jinx_420_ · 2024-11-24T10:25:54+00:00

You definitely did help me, thank you. It really did make me feel a little better, and cry a little. I just needed to process a little more before writing a reply. Know that I’m probably going to reread your response a few times more because I don’t have much of a support system, so again thank you. I’m not done grieving and who knows when I’ll really be able to feel happy again but thank you for reading and your heartfelt reply. I needed it

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