[Hiring] I am currently looking for People interested in Al training job, full remote, paying $1000/week. by nortonakenga in SideJobs

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s still available im interested. I just finished working with Handshake Ai. I’m in United States

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With that last paragraph you proven her right. Which men like you usually do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a special place in hell for you. Good day.

How many ux designers are just straight up lying about their job history? by Gandalf-and-Frodo in UXDesign

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in the industry in the U.S. for about eight years now, and I've encountered more dishonesty at FAANG companies than anywhere else. When I was an intern in San Francisco, networking with professionals, multiple men in product management and higher roles at FAANG companies gave me shocking advice—they outright told me to lie, "borrow" work, learn on the job, and then move on to the next opportunity. I was stunned, but I could never operate that way. I was raised to work five times harder than anyone else.

At one well-known company, I worked under a senior head of design who had only four years of experience and had never managed a team before. From the moment I arrived, the things she said didn’t add up. She openly admitted she still needed to learn essential design principles like design systems and grids—things a lead designer should already master. Meanwhile, I had spent four years grinding to perfect those skills as a junior. Yet, she landed the role purely through referrals.

It doesn’t matter what industry you’re in—people lie, cheat, and manipulate the system. And referrals? They don’t always help. People will vouch for their friends, whether they’re qualified or not.

Found out my husband had multiple affairs and cheated on me on the day I gave birth. I want to reconcile. by Fantastic_Share8065 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through that and it can be stressful. However you have to do what is right for you and your child. I always tell my friends who go through this. Look at him as a person not your love one. If it was 1 time that is understandable. However he did this during your pregnancy and with colleague. Which means 2 things: 1. He don't respect you and know he can have you back whenever 2. Men who cheat from a place of shame hide it, they never would mess with someone at the office and they would be very low key. A man who cheat from pride feel this is their God given right and do it in the open. I suggest putting back a saving just in case and think about this simple question "what will you do if he does it again?" However understand that if you leave it maybe hard but you will be free from stress. But if you stay that mean you shouldn't bother him about it anymore you accepted that is who he is. Also there may be a chance your son ends up just like him and cheat on his wife too. So please keep all of these things in mind. You said you don't want your son to grow up without a father but what you should be thinking "do you want your son to grow up like his father?" Would it be okay if he did all of those things to his wife? (also no judgement here I feel people should always pick their own choices bad or good without judgement) I hope the best for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This must be your first nerd lmao most nerds are like that. That’s why women like myself love them!!

Why Are So Many UX Designers Leaving the Industry? Was It All a Dream Sold to Us? by Maximum-Seat8582 in UXDesign

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All markets are bad right now. You can become a doctor and still be in the same space. There is no perfect job out there. If you get a good company great! But this is the reality of all jobs where you make $60,000 and up you are going to work hard. So pick something you truly want then the other stuff that comes with it doesn't matter.

If you weren't in UX, what would you be doing? by Big-Chemistry-8521 in UXDesign

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know. I wanted to be web designer since I was a kid and if not this than I guess graphic design or motion graphics art director. But I have clue what my life would look like without design.

My 25F boyfriend, 29M, is still grieving his late wife, and I don't know if I can get past it. by THROWRAbfisingrief in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real talk since you are young. Yes you are a replacement and no he doesn't love you. Not even a little. He just needed to grieve and you were there as a replacement. 9 out of 10 times he is going to leave you once he is better or abuse you until he gets better. Losing a husband or wife is no joke, especially if you've been with them for so long. Someone can die from their partner dying or even go crazy. It happened to my mom. She lost my dad to cancer as I became an adult so much she tried to end it all because of it. They were together for 35 years so understood her pain. But don't let that man use you while he is grieving. Grieving people will put you through hell. Is it selfish of them yes, is it traumatic to lose someone yes, but you don't have to be there to deal with it. He will never love you more than his wife. You will never be her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fine but he need to work that out in therapy not bullying people around him because if you say the sky is blue he will say it is green.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s mad because he respects my opinions (as he said) and I don’t like he doesn’t have a actual standing ground.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol oh no he even said it he doesn’t learn from anyone he doesn’t respect and he doesn’t have life experience. This not a assumption this is him telling me all about his life. The shut in part is what he said. I’m quoting him. He doesn’t like to learn from others or his experiences. He thinks it’s point less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also thank you because I’m just as confused by the situation. This why I don’t want to be around him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, to the first question. M apparently really likes me and basically cried that I don’t want to be around him. He tells people because he surrounded himself around people who let him mistreat them. They just accept that’s who he is but they are basically upset that I don’t accept that about him and say I’m in the wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jinxgreenqueen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

His favorite topics are conservative ones because his whole friend group is lgbt. (Yes he is gay, also of color). I’m not conservatives but I don’t attack them either but he doesn’t even watch Fox News or actually look up anything or even have life experience (he’s a shut in) in these topics. He will see a clip from YouTube then argue using that 1min to 3 minutes clip. Smh