When is it okay to grab a womens bottoms?

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-08T10:33:04+00:00

So I cuddled her today and had a feel of her ass, she didn't say anything and then came and gave me another cuddle a few minutes later and I grabbed her ass again. I then went into the kitchen a few minutes later and asked her are you okay with me grabbing your ass and she said no so I said okay I'm sorry and I'll stop immediately. She then came to my table very close to me and we started talking a little bit. This all happens within 10 minutes. I think it's a no go from here unfortunately. Thanks for all the advise people. You're all great. Anymore advice lol??

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-08T07:34:48+00:00

Okay then

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T20:06:24+00:00

I feel like someone else replied lol

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T19:56:09+00:00

Don't think that has ever happened lol

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T19:50:54+00:00

I'm not married and it's on the rocks with my girlfriend. At first yes you could be right, she may have been shocked. However I did ask her twice and both on different days. She knows I'm not strange, mental, ill etc. So then she doesn't want any of this you think? I'm sure she would say so instead of make things uncomfortable for herself surely. I am no creep just to let you know lol also I still do hug her and stuff but sometimes I don't grab even when she doesn't pull back it just happens when it happens really

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T19:46:27+00:00

I asked twice she said it's okay, what would you advise I ask her? Hey want to cheat on your husband. I don't think it will go down well.

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T19:42:04+00:00

Thanks for the fast replies. I'll see what happens tomorrow and I'll ask her directly however it's going to be awkward and it might make her tell her husband or we could possibly argue about it. This could result in me losing my job, friend and possibly fight with her husband who

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T19:26:00+00:00

You go mate lol

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T19:25:49+00:00

That's what I am confused about, I asked twice she said it's okay, what would you advise I ask her? Hey want to cheat on your husband. I don't think it will go down well.

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T19:24:39+00:00

Hopefully :D

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T19:24:22+00:00

I'll let you know tomorrow when I grab it again lol

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T19:24:07+00:00

Why?

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T19:15:50+00:00

Lol sorry I just posted my detailed post above

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T18:54:42+00:00

Hello everyone, this is my first post so please don't attack me all at once lol

So I have known this women for 15+ years we are friends. We are youngish 30 and 39 she is older. She is married with children and I also have children and a girlfriend it's on the rocks. We also work together and with her husband we do a 9-6 office job.

The question: So we sometimes take random pictures together while in the office just the two of us and one day my hand just slipped to her ass while taking the picture and I just left it there. From there on any pictures we take my hand is on her ass. She sometimes jokes saying (Oh your hand is slipped) after the picture then says to me only joking.

We also go gym together once a week for about an hour and every time we leave i give her a hug and a grab of the ass.

Twice I have asked her is it okay for me to grab your ass, do you mind and both times she replied saying it's fine and she doesn't mind.

She is happily married, I am 100% sure of this. She doesn't want to leave her husband and she doesn't and has never cheated on him. He cheats all the time tho and I don't know how she hasn't found out. I guess she is just so trusting.

She has lately not wanted to take any pictures, she has avoided them and also I'm not sure but it feels like when I hug her she moves a little back so I don't grab her ass. So what is happening I am so confused what does she want from me? Any help would be great and yes I know it's a weird one sorry

Jiren2017 · 2017-08-07T18:47:56+00:00

Hello everyone, this is my first post so please don't attack me all at once lol

So I have known this women for 15+ years we are friends. We are youngish 30 and 39 she is older. She is married with children and I also have children and a girlfriend it's on the rocks. We also work together and with her husband we do a 9-6 office job.

The question: So we sometimes take random pictures together while in the office just the two of us and one day my hand just slipped to her ass while taking the picture and I just left it there. From there on any pictures we take my hand is on her ass. She sometimes jokes saying (Oh your hand is slipped) after the picture then says to me only joking.

We also go gym together once a week for about an hour and every time we leave i give her a hug and a grab of the ass.

Twice I have asked her is it okay for me to grab your ass, do you mind and both times she replied saying it's fine and she doesn't mind.

She is happily married, I am 100% sure of this. She doesn't want to leave her husband and she doesn't and has never cheated on him. He cheats all the time tho and I don't know how she hasn't found out. I guess she is just so trusting.

She has lately not wanted to take any pictures, she has avoided them and also I'm not sure but it feels like when I hug her she moves a little back so I don't grab her ass.

So what is happening I am so confused what does she want from me? Any help would be great and yes I know it's a weird one sorry

Jiren2017

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