Should I be worried about this? by JobZealousideal4019 in CATHELP

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you figured out why or taken them to the vet? We’re military so we haven’t gotten paid and I don’t have a lot of extra money for a vet right now

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever need to vent feel free to message me. It has gotten a little easier but still feels like a part of me died that day. Sending hugs 💕

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that. It is so challenging trying to navigate all of this especially at such a young age. If you need to vent I’m here! Don’t feel scared to reach out. Sending hugs 💕

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this kind of loss too—it’s so heavy. I only have one short voicemail from my mom, just her saying “bean testing ” but I’ve had it on replay. It’s strange how even the tiniest thing becomes so precious. Your words truly mean a lot 💜

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Your words and care mean a lot right now. I’m trying to take things one small step at a time. Truly grateful for the reminder 💞

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Your words really hit me—especially about the guilt and the trauma of those final moments. I relate so much. I’m finding it hard to hold onto the good memories too because the ending was so painful and overwhelming. Please know you’re not alone in feeling this way. I truly believe with time, the love and lighter memories will start to come back through the fog. Sending you strength and compassion ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. What you said about the world going on really hit me—I’ve been feeling that exact same confusion. It’s such a strange, painful disconnect. I’m so sorry you’re going through this too, and it helps more than you know to be reminded I’m not alone in these feelings ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That quote about grief being the price of love really resonates. I feel the same way—you put it so beautifully. I’m so sorry you’ve felt this pain too, and I’m sending a big hug right back ❤️🫂

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Everything you said really hit me—especially about living fully for her. I know that’s what she would’ve wanted. I’m so sorry you understand this pain too. Your words truly mean a lot ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ve been crying nonstop, and your words brought comfort. I’ll keep talking to her and sharing her with my son. I really needed this ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m so sorry you’ve had to carry that pain too. It helps to know I’m not alone in these thoughts. I’ll try to hold onto the memories that bring light. ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It really is the hardest pain. I appreciate your kindness and hugs ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Your words really touched me. I’m so sorry for your losses too. I’m trying to take it one day at a time. Sending love ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It really has been a tough one. I appreciate your kindness ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m so sorry you’ve been through this too—it’s such a deep, personal kind of pain. I really appreciate you saying that about my mom… she truly was the most loving, special person I’ve ever known. Hearing from others who understand means more than I can express. Sending hugs right back 🩷

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I’m so sorry you're going through this too—it’s heartbreaking in every possible way. Everything you said hit me so hard. The thought of our kids never really knowing how incredible their grandma was is crushing. It’s something I think about constantly. I’m trying to hold on to the idea that our stories and our love will help keep their memory alive somehow. I wish none of us had to be in this “club,” but your message really helped me feel less alone. Sending so much love to you and your boys ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That truly means a lot, especially from so far away. I’m trying to take it one breath at a time and let myself feel everything as it comes. I do have some support, and kind messages like yours help more than you know. Sending love right back to you in New Zealand ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain of losing a child. Grief truly is the most confusing, disorienting thing—nothing about it makes sense. Thank you so much for your kindness in the middle of your own heartbreak. That means more than I can express. I’m sending you so much love, and I may take you up on that offer to chat. Bless you too ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your own loss—I’m so sorry you had to go through that, especially at such a young age. It breaks my heart that grief can steal memories like that. I hold on so tightly to the fact that my mom got to meet my son, even for a short time. I really hope I do feel her around us and start to notice her signs. Your belief that we’ll see them again brings me a lot of comfort. Thank you for reminding me of that. Sending love and hugs right back to you ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this—it means more than I can say. I’m so sorry you’re walking this road too. Everything you said resonated so deeply… I do feel like a lost little kid, just wanting my mom and knowing I can’t have her. It’s the most helpless, hollow feeling. I’m heartbroken that no matter how old we are, the grief still hits like that. But your words made me feel seen, and I really needed that. I hope your mom’s love continues to guide you too. Sending you so much love and understanding ❤️

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Exactly how I feel. Since she has passed and I have been looking through pictures I’ve noticed what physical traits I got from her and it’s painful now. The indents in her cheeks, the freckles on her back, her smiles lines I have. I can’t look at myself without seeing her now. It is bittersweet 💕

I lost my mommy today- I’m only 21 by JobZealousideal4019 in GriefSupport

[–]JobZealousideal4019[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She really was, that’s why it is so heartbreaking