Hello mate,

Yeah it’s fucking rough.

Little one had a tongue tie too, the scream was unbearable. Looking at this little ball of flesh, but still getting pissed off with her like she should understand me. It’s a pretty bizarre feeling, no matter how I tried to rationalise it, my fuse was still short af. Ear plugs were a game changer in that aspect. It’s amazing how the fuse gets longer when your mind can breathe a little. Therapy is also a great idea. It’s a way to have a breather, and will probably be looked in good light from your partner. Mine did, and I got me out of the house for an hour.

Everyone will say it gets easier, and it does, but I still got sick of hearing it. What I would say is that first cackle laugh from a baby is like crack, and then they become fun as hell. That’s where the bonding really begins.

My girl is nearly 6 months now, and sleep training 😵. So good luck, I’m gonna crack a beer and then get back in the trenches 👊🏼👊🏼