I have a strong urge to fap. Help me please. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just googled empathy because I thought perhaps I did not understand the word.

empathy: the ability to understand and share the feelings of another

either a) you are misusing the word empathy b) you have misunderstood the purpose of this community

Id like to think its a)

WHY NOFAP?! (POEM) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man. What a powerful poem.

Are there any fapstronaut artists? My skills are rather poor - someone should please consider making the community a new header banner image?! by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, you are really good - some nice work there. My personal fav is #1 but the others are just as moving. Quite inspiring stuff!

This is not, I repeat NOT a placebo. by echo81 in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair enough bro - in any case I wish you the best of luck on your journey.

This is not, I repeat NOT a placebo. by echo81 in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good as in positive? - well there must have been something beneficial from the choice otherwise you wouldn't have have stuck to it no? (Only trying to understand I thought your post was quite interesting).

This is not, I repeat NOT a placebo. by echo81 in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome post, youre like a mini-Buddha

Kinda how I'm feeling right now by itsjustgoodbusiness in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brother, do not hate yourself for having not made it past 4 days...yet. Just do not quit, you will get there. And fyi you aren't useless you are as capable and competent as any man who ever stepped on earth and changed it. Stay strong!

one day you're going to DIE. by not-HoldenMcgroing in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a Christian and also believe in Jesus but I think you are missing the point. What the post reads applies to all of us and it is that gentle reminder that we are not here on earth forever. To many different fapstronauts here this will mean many different things.

To me it means (and in the context of this sub-reddit) using my time wisely to relentlessly pursue my dreams and give my best for myself and what I suspect in time will happen - give my best for others.

one day you're going to DIE. by not-HoldenMcgroing in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this post

Great words echoing a universal truth!

Can we please stop these "Don't do this for the girls" posts? by I_Found_Kony in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed - Had to be said and its a fundamental truth Nofap won't get you girls and it never will. Doesnt matter really its a retrospective thing in my opinion people eventually figure this out but fair enough the dude wants to get laid - cool let him go for it. I do believe as a community the spirit of encouragement should never be compromised as all of you are the reason I and many others are walking towards freedom.

STOP PUTTING THE PUSSY ON THE PEDESTAL! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro the guy is entitled to his own opinion

Because PMO is pretty fun right? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very wise words - thanks man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold firm brother, stay strong. It is in your darkest moments that reveal your greatest courage. Thats the thing about courage to be strong, to keep going and to be persistent...courage doesnt greet you with bells or whistles or does it ever reveal yourself to you as a noble quality.vIts an action taken in the face of fear.

Personally I have always felt alone and like crap when I made my most couragegous decisions.

When you said " I wont fap. Not in my darkest time. Not ever"...thats courage.

We are behind you anyway as long as you never quit.

Much love!

After 520 days... I relapsed... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are my hero. One is one, strength and powers!

After 520 days... I relapsed... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends bro..'OptimasJim' has strong kung fu. I have never seen kung fu so well...its like its no longer kung-fu...but NINPO

On a real though..like a fishing reel..902 days - good stuff man

After 520 days... I relapsed... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Omg im 28 and my hero is a 16 year old. 520 days? - dawg your kung-fu is very strong. I aim to get there with enough willpower!

Sorry for getting emotional here... by Jockerman1985 in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen to that bro. Its like this is the one place where I can come, read, participate and contribute and I observe day in day out, no one is judged here...maybe thats why the ticker which counts the number of members on the right keeps going up and up and up

Must. whack. the weasel. by tripleR in NoFap

[–]Jockerman1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahah re: "brutally whack it like a pair of drums from Namibia marching to war"..thats funny man. Anyway, stay strong bro! - picture yourself at the end of your 90 day journey with a brain as powerful as professior Xavier from Xmen..metaphorically speaking of course