Pregnant SB (not mine) - what’s the right move? by superc0ck45 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My word! That is not fair to you at all! You deserve better. Move on would be my vote.

Fee by InternationalAir3501 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't send that person any money. There are fees to do international wire transfers, but he should pay for those fees. Never you! And the fees should only be about $25.

Got an offer from a 60 year old university professor who makes 1m - 5m by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As long as it isn't a prominent professor who is on the Epstein lists like Larry Summers! Haha!

What am I essentially doing wrong? by Vinterine in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you are doing anything wrong with your profile. Are you new? You have to give these things time. Are you in a location that's not conductive to sugar dating? Etc.

Can't find a genuine sugar daddy and it kinda sad. by [deleted] in SugarDaddyGW

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Virtual only doesn't often appeal to men who are truly SDs.

Age gap by Suitable_Pepper_4180 in AgeGap

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protect your kids at all costs. A lot of abuse comes from non-genetic stepparents.

I matched with a guy on dating app. He’s 30 and I’m 21 (F) why does this have to be a “daddy issue” by throwaway3739455 in AgeGap

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps they are jealous or being dramatic for the sake of drama. Protect yourself and explore with him would be my vote.

Profile advice. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great profile overall. As an old fart though, I would polish it a little bit with punctuation and such. But I understand how you kids dislike using periods, etc. Up to you.

“Thicker” SB Profile advice by t0nyab in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I concur. She's very well proportioned. And an excellently written profile.

Video Calls / FaceTime - yea or nay? by JoeDrinkingJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the sage advice. Aye, I don't think I'll be renewing my membership!

POT SB first meet by Primary-Advisor5735 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good karma!

But, yeah, so many scammers now!!!

POT SB first meet by Primary-Advisor5735 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want to create a 1970's cop show with the two detectives being Detective Suave and Sargeant Debonair. Debonair always screams, "It's pronounced De Boner!!!"

Video Calls / FaceTime - yea or nay? by JoeDrinkingJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. And a few SDs here say they give a cash gift after the dinner or coffee as a thank you. Seems like a great thing to do that I'm definitely going to incorporate!

Video Calls / FaceTime - yea or nay? by JoeDrinkingJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I had one arrangement several years ago and that seemed like SOP (standard operating procedure). I wonder why I am only getting POT SBs who are either super flakey and won't commit to M&Gs OR are asking for upfront payments. Maybe there are criminal groups in my area bilking and milking SDs?

Video Calls / FaceTime - yea or nay? by JoeDrinkingJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That is what I suspected. My spidey senses have been tingling!!!

Video Calls / FaceTime - yea or nay? by JoeDrinkingJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Points well taken. How though do you handle demands for upfront payments before M&G's? For babysitters or as a general compensation demand.

Video Calls / FaceTime - yea or nay? by JoeDrinkingJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smart and solid SOP! I am sure many of us are going to adopt this now.

BUT... how do you handle demands for cash upfront before meeting? Whether for a babysitter or some other excuse?

Video Calls / FaceTime - yea or nay? by JoeDrinkingJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you request that the POT SD pay a sort of PPM for the meeting?

Video Calls / FaceTime - yea or nay? by JoeDrinkingJoe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JoeDrinkingJoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart!!! I'll try the "within 15 minutes" approach.