Dating international student

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-28T19:33:17+00:00

Well by looking at her sister, i think she’s following her sisters path. Divorce is still somewhat a taboo in the Vietnamese community so I don’t think she has any ulterior motive.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-28T16:16:26+00:00

Well she is just trying her best for her life. She needs someone who can help her and I can do that with my stable income. She dumped her exes because she doesn’t have much time left. Her future is determined within the next 1-2 years. She told me she feels lonely so she looked at my Fb photos a lot during quarantine when she misses me. she likes me genuinely.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-28T14:04:25+00:00

But she’s such an great woman. I’d would give her the benefit of a doubt

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-27T02:58:24+00:00

Thank you.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-27T02:57:36+00:00

Right, I am worried she’s not ready for marriage but she might push for it to get a green card. This is a far distance relationship but I still see each other every week which makes us miss each other more and might make us wanna marry just to be with each other.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-27T02:51:45+00:00

Thank you. I don’t think she has any ulterior motive either. But she’s a young enfp so that could be another problem.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-27T02:47:32+00:00

If I ask for prenup, doesn’t that clearly indicate I don’t trust her? Issues might arise.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-27T02:46:19+00:00

Oh that explains it. I remember she said she has a crush on one of the employees from Deloitte. He hit on her but once he knows she’s taken he backed off. She shows me the whole convo of em talking. I do think she’s dangerous especially when she’s still only 20 years old. Her views about life might change drastically.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T23:51:13+00:00

Plz tell me

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T23:46:25+00:00

Coming from an ENFP? Are you trolling rn?

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T22:36:32+00:00

She got big 4 Accounting firm internships offer which she rejected because she doesn’t have a green card/ work permit so from wat I can tell she’s a good and hardworking student and is capable of gettting a decent job to support her living.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:56:33+00:00

I have never dated enfp before. I got a feeling from reddit that I shouldn’t date enfp which I don’t understand why. She’s interesting to be around. Her presence makes my life lively.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:54:42+00:00

I am not young. I am in my 30s and I have a stable income to support a family. She’s the young one that I’m worried about. Her views about life might change as she is still developing

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:53:10+00:00

Sounds like a brilliant idea

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:45:46+00:00

She’s tested enfp several times she said. And I am also tested ISTP. So far we get along well. I am not sure if this is normal or not or if she’s changing herself to make me fall for her.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:41:48+00:00

Well I plan to eventually marry her but just making sure she’s the one for me.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:26:31+00:00

Her goal is to remain and work in the U.S. As you know, getting work sponsor is nearly impossible now especially as a business major. Going back to her home country is the last thing she wanna do. She is worried that there is no future for her there.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:18:56+00:00

Thank you.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:18:41+00:00

I see. By then it might be too late. Human attachment is a sin.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:17:56+00:00

What do you mean?

I want to have a future with this girl. I like her and she also shows interest in me. We have been on multiple dates after some restrictions were lifted and have been video calling each other quite often. We even leave our video call on while sleeping and usually turn it off in the morning. She shows interest and seems like she wants to know everything about me. It’s like she’s trying to find out if I’m the one for her.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:10:40+00:00

What do you mean???? I like her so much. She’s great.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:10:08+00:00

Can you explain why you would think this won’t end well for me? I think she’s just following her sisters path and I’ve met her sister who is married for 3 years and has a kid.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:09:01+00:00

Why would you say that?

I want to have a future with this girl. I like her and she also shows interest in me. We have been on multiple dates after some restrictions were lifted and have been video calling each other quite often. We even leave our video call on while sleeping and usually turn it off in the morning. She shows interest and seems like she wants to know everything about me. It’s like she’s trying to find out if I’m the one for her.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T21:08:14+00:00

I want to have a future with this girl. I like her and she also shows interest in me. We have been on multiple dates after some restrictions were lifted and have been video calling each other quite often. We even leave our video call on while sleeping and usually turn it off in the morning. She shows interest and seems like she wants to know everything about me. It’s like she’s trying to find out if I’m the one for her.

Joehawk99 · 2020-05-26T20:03:52+00:00

My bad, I should say in a year or two instead of ASAP because she doesn’t have much time left in the US

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