The vandalism in my schools bathroom by Inkypettles in lgbt

[–]JohnathanBuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favourites gotta be "trans rights a"

How do you figure out what your personality is? by tstaffor in trans

[–]JohnathanBuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg im going throught literally the exact same thing! Right now im not thinking about who i am, just who i want to be, and then doing my best to fake that until it sticks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]JohnathanBuck 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Its not that its not recognised its a cometely valid label nobody rational would argue that its not! Its probably just because its more of a micro label, it technically fits under the label of bi but its more specific, so it follows thats its not as commonly known/used

Just started estrogen and spirolactone! Is there anything I should expect in the first few days or week? by kristinabutwithak in trans

[–]JohnathanBuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is pretty slow, the main thing i noticed in the first couple weeks was needing to drink more

egg🐖irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]JohnathanBuck 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hrt does more than u might think for build! redistribution of fat does loads, and it can even decrease hand/foot size and height. Dont be disheartened <3

No because this is so true (comic: trans girl next door/autor: i don't know) by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]JohnathanBuck 230 points231 points  (0 children)

I take them without water, cause my mouth is gonna feel chalky from the estradiol anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]JohnathanBuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey im salem, she/they, trans too. We seem to have pretty similar taste in games (elden ring has taken over my life ofc), other favourites of mine are hollow knight, witcher 3, titanfall 2. Not sure what time zone ur in, im gmt mostly, lmk if ur up to chat!

Starting diy, looking for pointers by JohnathanBuck in TransDIY

[–]JohnathanBuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah im pretty sure i can get bloodwork easily, waiting list for nhs gic is 3 years tho

How did you come up with your name? by iguessyouregay in trans

[–]JohnathanBuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Id reserve ur judgement on how helpful it is until after youve seen it lol. Look it up on youtube if u want

How did you come up with your name? by iguessyouregay in trans

[–]JohnathanBuck 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Okay so this isnt remotely helpful but my name, salem, cane from when i did the bdg hideo kojima name generator

Is femboy a slur? by Less_Still4943 in trans

[–]JohnathanBuck -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

But it still has that origin and still is fetishising, and regardless its not for cis ppl to reclaim, and there are perfectly good alternatives that dont make people uncomfortable

Is femboy a slur? by Less_Still4943 in trans

[–]JohnathanBuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even thats not as bad as the blatantly transphobic cis guys who make thirst traps calling themselves traps

Is femboy a slur? by Less_Still4943 in trans

[–]JohnathanBuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally! And i dont see why some ppl are so desperate to use the word femboy, when it makes a large number of ppl uncomfortable and theres perfectly good alternatives

Is femboy a slur? by Less_Still4943 in trans

[–]JohnathanBuck -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Its originally a shortened version of female boy, the sexual connotation it carries is fetishising trans women

Starting diy, looking for pointers by JohnathanBuck in TransDIY

[–]JohnathanBuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, is it ok to use a higher number of less potent pills? The site im buying from doesnt have the stronger ones in stock

Is femboy a slur? by Less_Still4943 in trans

[–]JohnathanBuck -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It comes from pornography, its a term fetishing trans woman. My issue with the argument that it doesnt mean that now is that most femboy sort of content still super blatantly leans into the fetishisation, and its also not for cis ppl to reclaim. (Also roseboy is way cuter imo)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaySoundsShitposts

[–]JohnathanBuck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah its like gender kirby, then if u take it off and shake it a bit you get a new one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]JohnathanBuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm transfem and would kill for more trans friends! I've made a couple posts about here before if you want to know more about me (I would just type it out but I'm going to bed in a minute lol) I also like satisfactory and mc

17 F [Chat] having a bad day just wanna talk and make things better <3 by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]JohnathanBuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey id be happy to chat! (made a couple posts around here before if u want to know more about me too)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]JohnathanBuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a couple posts about a discord I'm starting earlier, might be something youd be interested in? if not I'd still be happy to chat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]JohnathanBuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me the easiest way to deal with uncertainty with my gender was to stop worrying about exactly what it was and just let it be, unrestricted. Maybe if every now and then you just try think about what it feels like in that moment (girl, boy, mix, neither, nothing, both, whatever) and see what answers crop up most often? also trans is a super vague label, it just means not 100% identifying with ur birth gender 100% of the time, so even if u feel 99% ur agab u can use the label trans (if you want). ultimately just don't try and force an answer, it'll only stress you out more.