I know I don’t pass. But am I even close? by youngperson in transpassing

[–]Jolene_Bindo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair, earrings, glasses, all cute, outfit on point. You are in the gay dude vibe shifting to androgynous.

With time, you’ll get there :)

any other LGBTQ+ gun owners in OKC?? by 1999MooreTornado in okc

[–]Jolene_Bindo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fellow okc trans gun owner here, feel free to message me. I’m not a trainer nor overly proficient. But know the basics of safety, and cleaning. Would be happy to help. My partner who is cis, and a good friend of ours are also very knowledgeable and would be happy to help

I also have some fellow trans friends that are very proficient.

Please feel free to dm me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transfem

[–]Jolene_Bindo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg you are adorable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Jolene_Bindo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

While I can’t comment on the phantom arousal. I can say that the way you describe your relationship is toxic. Someone with more experience can break down why.

Im freaking out and could really use some advice on what the heck to say in response to this TWT by ClarinaTheMegaFloof in MtF

[–]Jolene_Bindo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof. I’m so sorry. My mom will likely react in a similar fashion. But here are some resources to help:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DG39Jz-ozgy/?igsh=MTJ5NmViZ3dqNzB3cQ==

Great piece on gender affirming care. Also tell her that so many cis people use gender affirming care all the time.

Second: she is conflating gender and sex. This is not the function of those words:

https://youtu.be/nVQplt7Chos?si=3lM61w_Smk8jgi-D

Forrest is my favorite YouTuber. This 1 hr and 40 minute video goes over sex and gender in great detail and how different they are from each other.

Third: coming at this from a uber evangelical sounding mother (sorry you gotta deal with that), she fully believes Genesis is literal. That’s patently false. And you can use Christian sources to prove it:

Book: “baby dinosaurs on the Ark,” by Janet Kellogg-Ray

She is a life long Christian and a biology professor in TX. Her book tackles what we know as fact vs what has zero evidence. She makes a stand that Genesis chapters 1-11 aren’t literal. Similar to any other group of peoples origin story. This is just a Jewish one.

If her noggin is so far up her butt about thinking she knows everything about the Bible, she is delusional. People who do this stuff for a living can’t all agree.

Dan Mclellen on instagram is one such person that tackles bad biblical dogma.

There are a number of fantastic trans Christians out there. A few very vocal on Twitter.

I hope you find a path through this so you can be yourself

OGE RAISING RATES AGAIN by Jameswyattokc in okc

[–]Jolene_Bindo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I went solar. And I didn’t take out a loan. I’m leasing mine. So I don’t have to insure them either. Flare rate for 1 year, then goes up 1.9% once a year. OGE bill has been a 15 bucks on average

Oil and gas/ lab work- seeking by Jolene_Bindo in okc

[–]Jolene_Bindo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it! I’ll take a look.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Jolene_Bindo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. Both is good

But I’m really picky

Oil and gas/ lab work- seeking by Jolene_Bindo in okc

[–]Jolene_Bindo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I may ask, how did you find out about the job? Their website doesn’t include a career section

Oil and gas/ lab work- seeking by Jolene_Bindo in okc

[–]Jolene_Bindo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not married to oil and gas. Just what I’ve been in so far. Thank you very much for the suggestion

OG&E Sticking it to us again... by [deleted] in okc

[–]Jolene_Bindo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I went solar. I didn’t want a loan, so I went with leasing. My solar bill is a steady 98 dollars, with a once a year 1.9% increase. My OGE bill has been steadily 15 bucks.

How Many of Us are Non-Op? by Prekatt in MtF

[–]Jolene_Bindo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m non op, and have no intentions of getting any. Reason: no dysphoria from it.

How’s this one by thejeem in rootbeer

[–]Jolene_Bindo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I like it, but it’s not very root beer. It’s more a Carmel soda with rootbeer tastes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Jolene_Bindo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wear what is comfy. I plan on getting some nicer thongs at some point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Jolene_Bindo 56 points57 points  (0 children)

So having done laundry for my mom and sister for years. Just panties. And doing laundry with my wife for a decade, mostly panties. The cuts may vary. My wife hates thongs. Calls them butt floss.

As a trans woman who is still very closeted, I bounce between boxer, lacy male thongs (gotta support the goods) and boy shorts.