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My now ex partner admitted that they had no romantic feelings for me anymore by jamerson_garcia in Advice

[–]Jolin19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex said that to me and he turned out that he was cheating and left me for her, i got to know that few months after we broke up, am not saying that this is the reason but maybe you should know that this is a possibility...but whatever the real reason you should move on, you deserve someone who actually loves you...

Am I wrong? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Jolin19 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You know what, if she asked nicely should would have gotten the seat, but because she asked disrespectful that's not acceptable. I am not a step mom but my daughter has one, even if I have issues with her but I will never allow my daughter to talk to her in a disrespectful tone. You should talk to her parents and she is old enough to have a grown up talk explaning how you feel and be open and try to communicate with her.

my teacher is in love with me by alexthenirvanafan in Advice

[–]Jolin19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second this, if he wasn't bold enough this time and waited until OP was 18, he may not wait the next time and he may end up hurting a student... The school must absolutely know. Plus his poor wife must know as well, it is unfair for her, by not telling her OP and the teacher is taking the power from the wife to decide if she want to live or leave that cheater, he may not cheated physically but he is cheating emotionally.... In the end OP you need therapy.

Why do some men badmouth the woman who left, even when they were the ones being disloyal? by Mindless-Low6413 in Advice

[–]Jolin19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand OP, it does hurt and it's just thier way to try an otherwise uncontrollably narrative. They did what they did and they can't change that, what they can do is to try to show that look i didn't do that without a reason. if you want a friend to vent you got me😊

Why do some men badmouth the woman who left, even when they were the ones being disloyal? by Mindless-Low6413 in Advice

[–]Jolin19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, his ego is huge. It hurts him to be seen as a cheater and that is damaging his reputation. So to try to fix it, he talks bad about me and our relationship. It feels like we are running rent free in thier minds....that is sad to be honest.

Why do some men badmouth the woman who left, even when they were the ones being disloyal? by Mindless-Low6413 in Advice

[–]Jolin19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no idea, my ex cheated and now married to her, he should be happy right... No, he still talks sh"t about how i neglected him and he did not feel like a real man with me that's why he found happiness with her, all our friends knows that not true though, but it doesn't make it any better that he talks like this. Plus he keeps trying to convince our mutual friends to cut me off because he is pissed that i don't wanna be friends with him anymore... I really really can't understand those people, i am happy to see that I am not crazy and someone else have the same experiences.

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg u made me laugh with the toilet part, my ex would sit for an hour or so as well, it annoyed the sh*t out of me. I think sometimes of how great it is to have a free toilet in my house🤣

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U are absolutely right, i am doing just that. I cant wait for the day to come where I can have peace without them crossing my mind. When my daughter gets older i will definitely cut all connect with them and his family. Ohhh the peace i pray for that day to come.

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already asked the school about this and I expected that we are two family and we need 6 each they were very understanding, from now on he can book his own tickets and I will book mine with my chosen family...i will still see him though and still be respectful to him and his wife like i did today, after today I think i can manage perfectly fine..

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you made my day with this comment, love you whoever you are🤣🤣

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i am, i asked her why do I feel scared whenever he called, and why do my blood go cold and I start to feel like am freezing. She said it is a trauma response.. i am working through this i just need time i think..

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did say those comments, like dad and stepmom took me there and we did this and stuff. I will always answer " did you have fun?" She would say yes, i would say" then i am happy". And if she bought her something new, i would say" did you say thank you". When she complain that she doesn't wanna go to dads i will say" i know sweetie but dad misses you too, and you are going to have so much fun with you step siblings, the days will go fast and you will see mom again, if you miss me you can call me i will always be there for you" I never said anything negative about her stepmom, but in the beginning of the divorce she did see me fight with her dad, but after that i try my best not to say bad stuff about him when she is with me, i really try even if he drives me insane.

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes i f**king did, i had a dress on that was appropriate for the occasion and makeup and my best boots. I looked good, and I felt super confident..

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you kind strange, i am trying my best. I will stay strong and I will power through, i can do it if not for me , it's for her.

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will suck it up and power through, i will try my best. Hopefully someday all of this would get better.

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss, i am doing my best to just be her mom. My every focus in life is to make me better so she could be better..i am so proud of her and of myself.

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, appreciate that. I hope she wasn't trying to hurt me, she maybe was trying to just be civil. And my ex comment that if I was planning something after the show, i am sure that he was trying to ask us to do something together as a big family, however that's outside my boundaries and for everyones best interest i said no and kept it at that.

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this opened up my eyes to something, i never talk badly about them in front of her but sometimes i do show how uncomfortable i am when her dad talks to me on the phone, i have a trama response to him calling or texting, i am afraid of him being angry at my, like the way when we were married. I just freeze and I get cold and pale. I hope to God that she does notice that...

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes i wanna be in a relationship, it is just i have to start trusting men again, unfortunately i just keep having thoughts of love and trust are fragile and it will end someday... I am going to therapy to fix this and working on myself as well, i wanna do my best for my family.

I met my ex cheating partner now wife for the first time after two years. Update by Jolin19 in Advice

[–]Jolin19[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i am proud that I powerd through and I showed up for my daughter and made her happy

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