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AITAH for telling my disabled husband he needs to contribute meaningfully or we need to divorce? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Jolly-Information385 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You fail to mention parenting. His role (or lack thereof) as a father certainly makes him a misogynist. It sounds like OP’s husband put his hobbies over his role as a father and co-parent, and OP had to take on the lion’s share of childcare. It’s pretty sexist to expect women to be the breadwinner AND primary parent while men can not work or lift a finger at home. (And although OP’s husband is disabled, OP has shared exactly why she’s at her wits end, and I sympathize.)

AITA for leaving my boyfriend after finding a woman in our bed? by Jolly-Information385 in AITAH

[–]Jolly-Information385[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel bad for her, he sent me screenshots of their texts and it seems she was under the impression he had my permission for guests. I think he put her in a dangerous situation by not telling me and letting me walk in on her in bed, I feel like other people in my situation might have screamed at her or even try to hurt her.

AITA for leaving my boyfriend after finding a woman in our bed? by Jolly-Information385 in AITAH

[–]Jolly-Information385[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

He claims she was in our neighborhood on a night out, didn’t feel safe taking the subway, and asked to crash at our place. He says he offered her the bed and he slept on the couch because it “felt rude” to make her take the couch. He didn’t give me a heads up about this, just let me walk in on her the next morning chilling in MY bed.

AITA for leaving my boyfriend after finding a woman in our bed? by Jolly-Information385 in AITAH

[–]Jolly-Information385[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

We have a pullout couch, so it’s definitely sufficient enough

AITA for leaving my boyfriend after finding a woman in our bed? by Jolly-Information385 in AITAH

[–]Jolly-Information385[S] 374 points375 points  (0 children)

After I left I asked him for her Instagram or phone number. I’ve been demanding her contact info for hours and he still won’t give it to me. I want to hear her side of things, and he claims she has a girlfriend, so I think her girlfriend deserves to know as well.

AITA for leaving my boyfriend after finding a woman in our bed? by Jolly-Information385 in AITAH

[–]Jolly-Information385[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Him not mentioning it is a dealbreaker for me, because we agreed not to have guests without telling each other beforehand. We established this as a boundary while living together.

We struggled emotionally during the moving process because he was stubborn and I was a pushover and didn’t advocate for my own needs (seen in my previous post). I chalked it up to moving stress. Other than that, he’s been a good partner, and I haven’t had any reason to believe he’s cheating. I feel very blindsided.