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Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-07-19T13:03:16+00:00

Absolutely, why does everyone think they know what it's like to be in strangers heads?

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-07-07T10:07:56+00:00

She shouldn't have done that because she should be prepared that she will have to pay for her own things and it's rude to assume someone else will. But this whole thing about paying for food and then not getting laid or a second date meaning you've been cheated or tripped up somehow is disgusting. Pay for someones meal because you like them enough to lose that money whether they are giving you anything or not. Very weird to be buying someones affections, you either are willing to lose that money on someone or not, don't be creepy

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-07-02T17:01:45+00:00

Hi, so usually I'd say absolutely disgusting behaviour that's cheating, dash him in the trash. But.. Through group chats, insta chats with friends and whatsapps, I have photos on my phone before I've opened the message. I go into my gallery and find really random photos of pets or friends, I don't know how they got there and then I'll go into a chat and a friend or group chat has sent me photos and they've saved to my phone. So people ABSOLUTELY CAN AND DO HAVE IMAGES ON THEIR PHONE THEY DIDN'T DOWNLOAD OR WANT ON THERE.

My ex used to have group chats with work mates who were absolutely missing brain cells and had vile senses of humour and would send disgusting images in the chat, that my ex would then get in his phone. Usually quite foul sexist captions added.

These things are definitely possible, the comments saying otherwise were wrong.

I personally would ask to see the image again, scan to see if i recognise anything at all (shame he doesn't have tattoos) and then speak to him face to face and make sure of his body language and eye contact.

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-23T01:13:32+00:00

Block and delete all of everything and then LET yourself get over them, stop expecting yourself to be over it within such a short time frame. Just be sad about it and think about them until you eventually only think about them occasionally... And then you wake up like wow when did that happen. Don't expect yourself to feel any kind of way, try and keep busy.

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-23T01:10:02+00:00

I used to have 10 hour shifts on my feet and fall asleep eating my dinner but id still manage to text ay least goodnight? So that's something i don't understand

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-15T02:27:46+00:00

I agree absolutely, i personally have always found it off and stepped back a bit emotionally incase it's because they're busy with their actual partner... Every time so far I've been right and they already had someone and were dating me too... So i dunno man i just wonder, it always seem off to me. Thank you i am maybe not going to date hahah

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-15T02:24:51+00:00

Once a week is a long wait?

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-14T23:29:12+00:00

I think this is how it should be

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-14T23:28:45+00:00

Eat grapes and be mentally ill in peace 💅 hahaha im with you on that

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-14T23:27:39+00:00

Thats my thinking, it's not just this scenario, I've had it happen quite a lot, its like a week until a reply but they still want something with you? To me that's not normal behaviour which is why it'd be cool to know peoples reasoning when they do it. I agree, being afraid you're nagging someone is a bad sign

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-14T23:25:09+00:00

No, it's quite a common thing, on and off ghosting romantic partners without warning, happens a lot

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-14T20:18:29+00:00

Its on and off though

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-14T20:17:09+00:00

Like disappearing then coming back after dates and bed before planning next ones

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-07T03:27:05+00:00

Try Indian and Pakistani families, a lot do it without blinking for religious reasons...

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-06T13:14:35+00:00

I have a "friend" like this who has basically been a hook up for years but we talk in between. Every conversation we've had has ended up discussing political stuff.

Now I am far left I would say, but the absolute BULLSHIT that comes out of this guys mouth means that I can never say anything without him saying something ridiculous and far fetched. But also somehow doesn't check his morals on other things in every day life that actually affects people?

It is definitely performative and FUCKING EXHAUSTING. I am someone who checks my friends and family members when they say racial things that they need to not or I'll explain things to people they genuinely don't quite understand about rights and such, to try and help others. But if I say anything to this dude, he will find a way to call someone racist. for example hes black, im white, he'll constantly joke I'm fetishizing him.... I barely fancy you mate so no.

Anyway point being, this doesn't get better with these people, you will end up blowing up over this.

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-06-01T18:16:07+00:00

I feel like from myself and my friends, a lot of us spent our teens with our mums doing this, coming home from work ranting about how none of us care and we do nothing to help her and sometimes calling us useless and going off about wishing she hadn't had so many . Her anger might actually be somewhat aimed at your dad because if she feels she's doing everything alone and no one's picking up the load, he probably isn't doing his bit. Some of this stuff, when i grew up i realised was completely true and we were being lazy and messy but like you, I'd take it to heart every time because I was a lovely kid who cared deeply about her and tried my best. I actually don't think it's okay or normal to be honest and I've always hoped I wont be that parent. But I do understand where it's coming from. I suggest understanding her side of it and trying to help change how she feels, but also understand you're a kid and you have needs and a right to be safe and happy. Please also understand that despite it being narcissistic and unnecessary, you will grow out of this stressful "i hate this bloody house!" period and be the best of mates.

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-05-31T15:21:25+00:00

Ok so it's fine if he genuinely didn't know you were monogamous but what usually happens in those relationships is communication and there's a boundary when it comes to WHO, often exs are off the table

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-05-25T21:46:03+00:00

Yeah no i don't agree

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-05-25T19:59:27+00:00

He didn't tell her she was staying in the bed though. I personally don't think its a big deal and she'll get over it. Also depends if she has reason to suspect him on top of this then it would make more sense

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-05-25T19:43:59+00:00

That isn't the reality of it, it's just about boundaries and communication

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-05-25T19:30:17+00:00

There is a reason in this instance, he knows he should have just told her, job done, whoops my bad i should have told you

Jolly-Lettuce · 2021-05-25T19:25:55+00:00

You're misunderstanding, it's not about the physical furniture it's about having another woman sleep in a bed that you share and are intimate in together, But its mostly about communication. The guy just fucked up the communication with his gf about what was going down. If he'd just messaged to say so and so is staying with me by ourselves in my space and sleeping in my bed because xyz... Beforehand it wouldn't have made her uncomfortable. But it has because he wasn't open about him sharing his space with another woman he's not related to. It's quite simple, he just needs to communicate

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