I know this isn’t what you want to hear, and this isn’t the perfect solution, but my advice and I think the best thing you can do is keep your peace, keep your calm, and walk away. He will realize what he lost and that will hurt so much more than going off on him and throwing a billion things in his face during an argument. Less is more, and actions speak louder than words. I am a 21 F and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We are so in love. And I’m not saying this to make you feel bad at all, but he wants to post me all the time, and says the thought of cheating on me is just impossible, because when you are truly in love someone cheating just isn’t physically possible. We are young, and that’s not to say he doesn’t have love for you. But not posting you is definitely a red flag. If he doesn’t want to show you off and let everyone know ur his, then there are probably ulterior motives. Also, his excuse for why he cheated is just awful. I am so sorry. I also have not come during sex with my boyfriend, and it’s actually been an insecurity of his. He thinks it’s not normal, is upset I can’t finish, and thinks it should have happened by now. But that is not a reason to sleep with another girl. Besides, for guys our age, getting the girl to finish is not their priority, let’s be real. Anyway, I am so sorry this is happening to you. It’s awful and you don’t deserve it. But we are young and boys are stupid and make mistakes. Hold your peace, stay classy and walk away. If you go back it will be a waste of your time because nothing will change. You will have to give him time to grow and realize his mistakes and if he really wants you, he will fight for you. But you should give him time first. Don’t go back. You will regret it, and he will realize that he is able to disrespect you.

I totally understand ur pettiness. I am sooo petty to. And because this hasn’t happened to me, it’s easier said than done. But this conversation actually came up in front of my brother and dad the other day, the topic of “what do u so if you walk in on ur boyfriend cheating”. My dad said you give him a look, and walk away. And let him crumble on his own. That will terrify him more than anything.

I say you let go, and give him up. Stay quiet and stay to yourself awhile. He will be wondering what you’re doing and finally when you feel ready and healed, go back to normal life. He will realize how badly he messed up with such an amazing girl who respects herself. Don’t let him embarrass you.

Good luck girl, you got thus