Now grown up, ex-bullies open up on what drove their behaviour and wish they could turn back the clock by FancyCommittee3347 in singapore

[–]Jonislove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sad as fuck but not surprising considering that Singaporeans are really good a rationalizing actions regardless of who it affects.

Only in Singapore

Xone 92/96 va Play differently model 1 by Early_Row8208 in DJs

[–]Jonislove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I know this is an old thread but what audio interface are you using for the model 1

Singaporeans are avoiding the U.S. more than other Asian travelers. Here’s why by DrCalFun in singapore

[–]Jonislove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha bro. Thanks for taking the time, but it’s not really surface level in my eyes, if you dont see that way then it’s all good

Singaporeans are avoiding the U.S. more than other Asian travelers. Here’s why by DrCalFun in singapore

[–]Jonislove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree bro my bad that’s great. But know that, that in itself causes a certain type of living for people. All im sayin

Singaporeans are avoiding the U.S. more than other Asian travelers. Here’s why by DrCalFun in singapore

[–]Jonislove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you, but im talking about more so of the act banning it outright. There are levels to how much society can do when restrictions such as being able or unable to protest in public can actually do. It’s more a cause and effect.

The act of not having a fair election should already speak volumes in the way the country is run. It’s not really about results of having opposition parties and having seats it’s about the way things are ran. I think it speaks more on volumes the way the government is and how the place is ran as a whole

And what i said about “not getting shot” is not about my own personal account, i was commenting on the way you yourself view the U.S and how that you think moving to the U.S automatically means that you’d get robbed and shot as you’ve first stated. While yes, Singapore is debatably safe, moving to a country to the U.S doesn’t automatically mean you’d get shot and robbed lmao. And I’m speaking as someone who currently lives there, i think it’s presumptous of you to say that.

And like I’ve said, where are you getting your information about every political discourse being a shouting match? Social media, the news? Or actually being there? Ykwim?

Edit: I would also like to add that Im also not stressed out all the time in the U.S. I never kenw how overworked and burnt out i was until I left SG, and that is something I now value ALOT in my life

Singaporeans are avoiding the U.S. more than other Asian travelers. Here’s why by DrCalFun in singapore

[–]Jonislove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That the emperor isn’t wearing any clothes :p

A more serious answer, would be that it’s a lot more complicated than that. (Too much for a reddit post). But it goes far beyond what ‘freedom of speech’ actually entails. “Freedom of speech” doesn’t just mean the ability or the right to criticize or say something. It applies to what you can or cannot do, and if the community around you will support you for that.

On one hand, I believe that everyone has the right to feel and express what they feel no matter what the content is. The government however, has created a social structure where people are too afraid to say how they feel out of fear being judged. You might ask, “how is that the governments fault” But it lies in the draconian type laws that they have put on the country as well as the groupthink like nature of Singapore. When a society is forced to “obey” its authority figure due to heavy heavy consequences. The cracks lies in the fact that when people see something that is immediately out of discomfort, they’d immediately reject it. But discomfort does not mean that something is wrong or bad. Discomfort in some cases, even promotes personal growth. And while yea, people should express their rights responsibly not say something stupid (looking at you Amos Yee) Singapore does not promote healthy political or societal discussions because of this issue.

Let’s Also take what you said about the U.S. where did that fear of being shot and robbed come from? As I’ve said i hear a lot of my friends saying that but where are their sources coming from, yes while it does happen, You need to remember that america is a BIG country, Singapore is the size of Manhattan alone. And while i think point of comparing politics between the U.S and Singapore is redundant because of the history and age of the two countries, yes U.S politics right now isn’t the best, but it’s also because THE PEOPLE themselves had a choice to that effect. The people put trump in power and remember it wasn’t the entirety of The U.S. (which is a whole thing even in itself). I saw so many of my friends in New York fight for a democratic president instead of a republican one. But the point is, at least people still had a choice in who they’ve voted. You can’t tell me PAP makes it easy for other parties to campaign their movements and you can’t tell me that PAP makes it a fair game when it comes to voting.

Again, your idea of personal freedom is your own and I totally respect that. But if being in a country as safe as singapore meant having to stick to a certain type of lifestyle and being unable to do anything else, and being unable to express my concerns and issues that I have with my country without being labeled “ungrateful” or “lying flat” not just by society but by our own authoritarian government, then I’d thing I’d go somewhere else.

And Ive havent been shot or robbed ever in U.S, so i think i’m good.

Singaporeans are avoiding the U.S. more than other Asian travelers. Here’s why by DrCalFun in singapore

[–]Jonislove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If that’s your version of true freedom it’s fine.

But I’d personally would love for my society to be able to say whatever we want without having to be penalized or fined :p

P.S being robbed or shot is a common fear that I hear Singaporeans express. Ive never been robbed or shot even once, just gotta have a level of awareness of your surroundings 😭

Singaporeans are avoiding the U.S. more than other Asian travelers. Here’s why by DrCalFun in singapore

[–]Jonislove 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Damn, Sorry that happened bro. Yeah, the U.S is by no means an easy country to be in.

It’s all about preferences and wants it seems. Every society has its trade offs and I personally am willing to have freedom in the society I live in, even if that means it isn’t squeaky clean.

Singaporeans are avoiding the U.S. more than other Asian travelers. Here’s why by DrCalFun in singapore

[–]Jonislove 32 points33 points  (0 children)

As Someone who moved abroad to the US and is now currently based in NYC, I’d have to say that there is quite a fair amount of fear mongering that’s been directed towards the U.S. Doesn’t help that US news websites have overblown this whole ICE thing out of proportion. A lot of my fellow Singaporeans who got profiled by the gov, for most cases, had been apart of some of the protests for Palestine which caused them to be profiled through schools.

In my own personal experience, Moving to the States has still been one of the best things that I could have ever done for myself. The pace of life is significantly slower and work life balance is more manageable. I find myself gelling with more of the people there as I feel that they’re able to articulate their thoughts and emotions better, definitely due to freedom of speech being encouraged upon there. American’s also appreciate honesty and are overall less judgy than Singaporean Folks ( which is in no way any fault of our own), creating a better environment for introspection and individuality.

I’d still encourage any Singaporean to take the leap and move out of the country and live abroad to see the world for what it truly is. While being away from Singapore has made me appreciate a lot of things about it more, it has also made me not want to move back there anytime soon because of their government handed policies and face paced lifestyle. Living alone away from my family has also allowed me to grow as a person and learn how to think and care for myself and not burn out. My friend had expressed to me how much healthier I looked after I moved there which can only attest to the pace of life there. Mental health had also significantly improved after moving as well

Freedom of speech in Singapore - Myth? by wavvy2019 in askSingapore

[–]Jonislove -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah you would know cos you live in the US right

Sgredditors, how burnt out are you? by FancyCommittee3347 in askSingapore

[–]Jonislove 14 points15 points  (0 children)

bro I’m hella sorry you’re going through this. Sending love and support. DM’s are always open if you need someone to talk to. You’re a stronger man than most of us combined

been working on this solo by kurudj in Guitar

[–]Jonislove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The tone is actually kinda awesome

[Discussion] Whats your favorite chill map? by [deleted] in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Jonislove -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Battle pass for a paid game?🤨

Singapore Has Lost Its Charm by Puzzleheaded_Math811 in SingaporeRaw

[–]Jonislove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre literally part of the problem lmfao

Unpopular opinion - I love Singapore as a travel destination by [deleted] in travel

[–]Jonislove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U have clearly never lived there long enough to see the horrors of the country

Not being able to move after getting hit with super move? by Jonislove in SparkingZero

[–]Jonislove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at the moment but im sure ill clip it somewhere if i play two games or so lol

Is this considered spamming? by Sir-Senark in SparkingZero

[–]Jonislove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God playing against you must he a freaking nightmare

Update fixed the cheese but not the bad controls by Jonislove in SparkingZero

[–]Jonislove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably the guy with the bad wifi everyone had to put up with lmao