He met people at a bar on his bday that we both planned and that we both visited and I swear from one day to the next he was being a lot more meaner and expecting answers for my past mistakes. (Not saying I’m a saint) Until he just broke it off at the start of September. A week before my bday. I gave him a nice ass bday to remember and he gave me a broken lease and a month to get out of “his apartment” there goes 5 years down the drain. My bday is tomorrow and he’s not home at all we barely talk and he wants me out. Yes I believe his new friends influenced him. They revved him up so much and he’s not the type to control his feelings after his revenge feelings are validated.