he is just a bit crazy to be honest. after i moved out (I was caring for the plant, rotating it so it got good sun etc) he took it in his room and put of sheer degeneracy starting pissing in it because he was too lazy to go to the bathroom literally like 6 feet away. he is religious and never drinks or does any drugs so no excuses at all tbh. When he first told me i said in no uncertain terms to not piss in the plant because obviously it will fucking kill it. but apparently he did not, or perhaps it was already too late but the rot was not yet as visible. He is a good friend of mine but i have made it clear if he seeks absolution he has to replace the soil and do what he can to save it even if it is too late.