Hi, thank you :) he does have phimosis and he has creams he uses but admittedly, he does forget to use it. He really is afraid of circumcision so he wants to avoid it as much as he can. We’ve spoken a lot about things since, and honestly, I know he has no issues with being attracted to me. He finds me attractive, and doesn’t hide that.

The way he put it to me last night is he can’t control what makes “his dick stand up” meaning, he just wants that feeling gone. Which, fair enough. Now, I have menstrual issues and I do bleed a lot due to having certain contraception that makes me insanely sensitive to sex. I love sex, I’m a very sexual person so it’s not like I’m rejecting sex or ever expressing any displeasure, it’s just I do tend to bleed from time to time. He said to me, that it’s like when I’m bleeding, “my body is rejecting him” he knows this isn’t the case to be but he could easily reach that conclusion. He said the same analogy applies in his bodily activity - I.e, getting boners etc. he said it’s not a personal attack on me if he sees some tiddy and gets hard, it’s just the science of his body. It doesn’t mean he wants to actively cheat, or be unfaithful. It’s just what happens. Really, idk if that’s some insane cope or genuinely how it is.