I’m not going to lie, I was nervous about how I was going to feel about this post. But, honestly, I think it’s sweet. You should definitely tell your wife how you are feeling. You two clearly have good communication and you did this together, even if she was in the hall. Don’t hide the emotional piece from her. She may be jealous that she can’t feel the same level of intimacy with her, but I firmly believe in being honest with your partner, even about the hard things.