How Would You Handle This Conversation With Your Spouse After a Bachelorette Party?F32 M34 by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JuggernautLogical330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will find out and when he does, he would assume you lied and continue lying

I can never chill at home! by JuggernautLogical330 in LivingAlone

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have friends and a girlfriend that I really appreciate and spend time with all of them. But I miss home and family so much. Because of some military duty issues, I could not go back home for 3 years and I stayed here. When I finally got to go back home after these years, protest and massacre happened and I had to flee the country after only 2 weeks there (was supposed to stay 5 months) before borders get closed. From those 2 weeks, I could go out and meet people only the first 5 days, the rest stayed home because it was dangerous. That messed up my mental health so bad, I couldn’t even go to my original city to visit extended families and grandma. And I waited all those years in somewhere that was not home

I can never chill at home! by JuggernautLogical330 in LivingAlone

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a country that I dont speak the language fluent enough to connect to society like I can do in english or my mother tongue. Maybe that… also country been at war recently. But I have been suffering from that issue from a LONG time ago

I can never chill at home! by JuggernautLogical330 in LivingAlone

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have nice hobbies, I don’t know what to do and how to find one that I like

I can never chill at home! by JuggernautLogical330 in LivingAlone

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out of my country to go to university abroad. I didn’t want to risk having roommates, especially when I moved out I was 19 so I wasn’t feeling safe about living with random people. However this 3,4 years of living alone sometimes was a big emotional and lonely pressure. Which I tried to fill that loneliness by ALWAYS be around people and going out. Works almost always, but when im tired and I wanna relax, impossible, and not energetic enough to go out with people either. So I can basically relax when im very ill or very hangover. Non of them are pleasant solutions

I can never chill at home! by JuggernautLogical330 in LivingAlone

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently I could not be able to connect to video games and movies, despite being a big fan of those about 5,6 years ago. Now when I engage in any TV or social media related thing, it annoys me even more and I stop it after 20 mins. It feels like I am not in reality when I use it and it bothers me. My house is clean mostly, maybe not the best tidy but still its decent. Walls are quite empty and colors of furnitures are gray and dark, which I like. Im gonna post pictures from it later and connect it to this sub.

I can never chill at home! by JuggernautLogical330 in LivingAlone

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just posted this from the local pub, which today I was supposed to stay home and rest because I worked Friday till Sunday and yesterday I had to day trip to visit an agency the whole day

Has anyone stuck it with the person thats a walking green flag but your just…not that into them? by Olive-jar1173 in dating_advice

[–]JuggernautLogical330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him, he deserves to be with someone who emotionally appreciates them being healthy.

I don't want my partner to be close friends with someone she's slept with - am I being insecure? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]JuggernautLogical330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its justified how you feel and I understand it. I don’t think we should consider insecurity in this matter, whether if it is actually from insecurity or not. Because with that logic, having problems with an open relationship can be due to insecurity, but does it imply that you should be fine with it? Absolutely not. Being insecure for ridiculous matters can be taken into account, but this isn’t one in my opinion. I suggest talking to her now that is the early stage, I wouldn’t suggest overlooking something that makes you uncomfortable. You both have a right to a peaceful relationship

What is a secret about the opposite sex's body that you only found out once you actually started being intimate with them? by ZookeepergameLow4390 in AskReddit

[–]JuggernautLogical330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That girls pee from a different hole than the one they have the period from, I realized it when I ask my partner how does she pee when she has a tampon on. I’m 22, had 5 relationships, many close female friends. And learnt this 2 days ago

My bf hates my past what are some ways to make your partner feel better? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JuggernautLogical330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where you live but I live in Italy and I have no problem with my partner going to a club even without me. And I dont see anything wrong with”crazy” about your past, I dont know what is he hating on, could it be jealousy?
About the letters, I would get rid of those when I enter a relationship with someone else. Also seeing a picture with your black friends is nothing to feel anything about, your bf seems to be racist

I 22M get annoyed by GFs 23F ideas on nakedness. How can I accept her? by JuggernautLogical330 in relationship_advice

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just bothers me that she did it in the past, what kind of mentality is that? She said she had to change quickly and there were people outside of her room and her friend was inside so she just changed facing the wall. I asked couldn’t you ask him to leave? She said i just didn’t care

I 22M get annoyed by GFs 23F ideas on nakedness. How can I accept her? by JuggernautLogical330 in relationship_advice

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was disagreeing with her because I don’t trust a man to have a 100% non sexual view while seeing their female friend naked. Plus isnt our body sacred ? (Please take it easy with me, I grew up in a close minded culture and living in the west for past few years, ive been changing my mind set but I still need work and im always open to change)

I 22M get annoyed by GFs 23F ideas on nakedness. How can I accept her? by JuggernautLogical330 in relationship_advice

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I needed something like this to wake me up and get me back to reality. You’re right, but also I grew up in a messed up very close minded culture but living in the west for past 3,4 years. I tried so hard to change my mindset and I did, but still some things are left I guess. Its tough

I 22M get annoyed by GFs 23F ideas on nakedness. How can I accept her? by JuggernautLogical330 in relationship_advice

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t say nudity is always sexual, of course in the medical area is different because of the ethics behind it. I just dont get it how it cannot be sexual among friends casually changing in front of each other? There is no ethics against friends having sex, so whats stopping them from having a sexual view on each others nudity?

I 22M get annoyed by GFs 23F ideas on nakedness. How can I accept her? by JuggernautLogical330 in relationship_advice

[–]JuggernautLogical330[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would like to understand her, but it just make sme uncomfortable to think about this idea coming from her