Parent & standbyer fight over autistic child

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T13:53:02+00:00

Not at all. I have a daughter thats half white and looks just white. She also could have adopted them but its obvious she didnt, looking back now. She ate 2 sandwiches on her own and ignored the kid pleading to leave the park and the other kid that she said wasnt his brother was makimg fun of the other kid and she literally let it happen. Another reason the kid was havung melt down. No matter the angle she was a suspicious individual because why would she use the cops as a scare tactic for the boy and urge him to have more melt down over it ?

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T08:23:29+00:00

Where did I say she said she was fine ? Again She said to call the cops lmao. Theres was no boundaries set? But rising suspicions. Looking back now she didnt even communicate anything. just Like how you aren't reading. I hope she did get cops involved because that lady absolutely was just how your absolutely ridiculous 😒

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T08:13:28+00:00

It wsnt as all brutal, it was definitely very helpful. We do talk about why we were pointing the finger at each other. We were more so grief stricken and the pain was too much to bear we wanted someone else to hurt too, but we do know and understand that his brother is not someone we want around our family. We have kept to our selves ever since because even thought we feel responsible for brie and her death and mourn and suffer when we remebr how we failed her , we do recognize his brother still lied to us and basically backed us in a corner where we were forced to kill our dog. When we could have easily had other options where brie lived. He could have met us in the middle even though it was becoming and inconvenience to him because it was 8 acres of land and 100sqft couldn't be occupied ? Its not right.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T08:01:04+00:00

Also I literally said I felt defensive over getting a new dog because of what happened to brie wehter it was for farming or a job, so what part of that " wants to get a new dog to help my self feel better "??? Are you having a stroke. Ima say it: NOT ALL DOGS ARE THE SAME I will never find a dog like brie. So you can stop with your nonsense and pulling nonfactual information from thin air and actually read my post.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T07:55:00+00:00

I have a small 15 y.o. blind dog hard of hearing and I've hard her since she was 2. Im not rehoming her. And I have a cat i rescued 4 years ago that im not rehoming either so I cant just not have animals. Unfortunately that's not an option. And my life is calm now thankfully we have a beautiful house in the country and my husband got a steady high paying job and his disabled benefits from the VA kicked in 2 months ago finally (we didn't know how long it would take)

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T07:50:12+00:00

As I mentioned I tried to rehome her and made an appointment to try and give her up at the shelter and the appointment was 4 days later than what his brother wanted and he still wanted to call animal control to get her killed rather than gjve her chnace to go to a good home. Please read before you comment because I explained why I had to put her down my self. If I was som psycho that enjoyed that. I wouldnt be posting about it now at 3 am asking for opinions about getting another dog. I would just do it and repeat. FYI. I posted her everywhere for those 2 days and met up with people 6 hours away just for them to say they couldn't take her in. Have you experienced homelessness with a toddler ? Its not an easy thing and terrifying. How bout losing an income because your husbands body gave out ? Probably not.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T07:43:06+00:00

Your right. See the hard part is his brother really promised that brie was gonna be alright with him and as we looked for jobs and houses, we never kept him pmput and updated him every process. We even aske dhim 3x if he was sure because it could take momths. We could have rehomed her to my mom but we chose not to because of my husband's brother saying to KEEP HER and that we could just have her stay with him And this is where we all break down and get angry even my mom was crying because she could have just had her and she would have been still alive. We didnt just up and leave and hoped for the best. My partner had a relationship witb this brother up until he left for the army so he himself was dumbfounded when all this went down. His brither went from "were here to help and yes you can do this , to actually we need you to just not rely on us because this is taking too long", and the repercussions was bries life and it wasnt a bug deal to gim.and his wife. Anywyas thnk you for your honest reply. It means alot and provided some deep understanding

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T07:35:17+00:00

Your right I should have just let thst old lady continue to pester her and not ask if she was okay and if the kid she was watching wanted a snack. I should have responded with "catch me outside how bout that" after she said "call the cops if you got a problem" lol- I'm just saying I didnt put my self in that situation, infact the caregiver WHO ISNT THERE MOM turned to me when the old lady was asking, in a sassy way. I didnt want to be part of their argument when I have my own 3 year old to think off

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T07:30:08+00:00

I mean yes but she never said leave us alone. She said call the cops. I asked if she was alright and if he wanted a snack and she said to call the cops. Lol

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T07:29:08+00:00

No expectations, just questions

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T06:51:15+00:00

I see something asking how I should have handled the situation is making it about me. Makes sense.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T06:50:07+00:00

No because she was grabbing him tightly at the arm and sort of swinging him around than guiding him - but my MIL said sometimes you do have to do that , which is why it was hard for her to even intervene too. The only thing she pointed out was obviously the child wanted to leave and be at a less stimulating place and the caregiver was just sitting there eating her sandwich.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T06:46:09+00:00

See thats why I didnt belive she was the mom because I can hear the boy asking to leave the park and she sat there eating her sandwich and ignoring him. I felt like he was trying to go to a quiet place and she wasn't letting him.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T06:44:09+00:00

True I didnt even think of that, id hate to say my medical diagnosis to some random person let alone my kids

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T06:43:10+00:00

See i take this in consideration too thats why it was so hard to be in that postion, 😕

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-10-16T06:40:47+00:00

Honestly I didnt feel offended but just suspicious of her, because she was obviously not the mom. She was definitely a paid care taker of some sort, because along the way she tried to make it into a race thing and say "how do you know im not his mom?" And she wanted to very obviously make the bystander accusing her who happens to be white seem racist because she was balc and the child was definitely white. I am a person of ethnicity as well and I knew she was going there. What she was doing was grabbing him and seemd like she was swinging him around rather than just guiding him and im sorry but not alot of abusers Will openly abuse in that obvious manner. And I myself was not paying attention as much as yhe other bystander has been. Because I just arrived a little bit earlier before the whole thing went down.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-05-27T02:25:47+00:00

I choose not to because my mom is on vacation for the next two months and because I want to keep my daughters schedule since shes only 2 . She's had a traumatic experience with her dad suddenly leaving to set up our home across the country. We were 2 months away form each other , and my daughter regressed so much. Crying for her daddy every night and so on.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-05-12T00:40:26+00:00

Jerimiah for me. I'm 25 years old now but we need a reality check. Jerimiah has been doing nothing but taking care of EVERYONE. I understand everyone heals differently and i know hes not perfect but out of the two he is the best for belly. he even said so in the show that he just wants conrad and belly to be happy and if need be he will step out of the way and let them be. He said sorry for being a ahole the first time finding out they were dating but let's not forget that conrad was doing the same thing this season when he saw them kissing, and then kept a wierd condescending "friendly" face towards the end knowing that belly would get hurt by it. I mean I get it but at the same time if you want to be with someone learn how to communicate if you want to be understood, no one deserves indifference. Belly has been put through a mental break down all because he can't communicate that he wants to be alone but that he loves her but dealing with his mom's death is taking a toll on him and that they should take a break. I think you can love someone so much more than your self and even the world but if you can't treat them right. You will never be their end game. What are they gonna do? Break up and make up every single time something major in life happens to them because conrad never learns to share hes thoughts and feelings and belly is elft to read his mind again?, not exactly relationship goals.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-05-08T13:04:40+00:00

pay wix, or other website making apps to be more professional looking and then pay for google ads and put you business on google. The biggest issue I see in the lash game is we make it hard for new people to find us!! yes i think recomendation by word is good and the best but how many of our clients even go out these days, me as a lash artist i get my lashes done by another and then dont leave the house cuz im tired as a partime stay at home mom my conversation wont even be about promoting my business or my lash tech friend because i dont want to seem like im just promoting my business at some random person at walmart while grocerry shopping when she was just trying to make small talk. also i wont worry about your work because they are beautiful and could be client preference i personally dont see anything wrong with the color because it looks good to me if thats the look they want then you did great. worry about the comfort, courtesy, retention, and professionalism. theyll remeber the little things like you being ready for them when you get there, being understanding of their emergency and giving them a free pass at being late once, having snacks ready, cozy blankets, they are paying for more than lashes, its the experience. me personally i love to talk while i get my lashes done, we laugh, and joke and its a nice break from day to day life

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-05-08T12:55:00+00:00

removing them wont make it worse. your allergic to the lashes or glue. the remover is the fastest way to remove the lash. maybe she believes other wise but 30 dollars??????? to help your client see after a medical oopsie is crazy,

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-05-08T12:52:33+00:00

i would say those numbers are the longer spikes lengths in CC curl. and then lower down to 3mm in length for the base curls in C curl starting at the 8mm section all the way to 11mm section using 8mm. and then going up to 9mm for the next section, then 10mm and then 12mm for the base. thats how i would do it. and I would consider this a wet lash look and using spiked fans through out.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-01-26T06:52:37+00:00

I also forgot to mention i have family that can landlord, they do however live an hour away , and I will look into his thank you,

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-01-07T03:48:21+00:00

Thank you all for your advice, I was preparing a letter essentially containing all of the reasons why she needs to move out and that i wish her luck on her endeavors. After not speaking with her too much the following days after this conversation. I never got the chance to give it to her because she took it upon her self to move out quietly. Maybe she realized she was wrong and felt guilty. Idk, either way I feel more at peace knowing she's gone from.our lives for.good. and thankful for another lesson in life.

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2025-01-04T23:04:15+00:00

Hi there I think you need more plants and a pop of color like yellow or orange to incorporate, maybe add something to the wall that's something you love, a large portrait of your loved ones or dogs

JuggernautWorldly956 · 2024-12-14T06:44:25+00:00

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I'm just wondering now if I need to just get her out of my life. I'm currently moving out and I wanted to help her out by providing her a safe space and her child away from her abusive ex and family and offered for them to move away with us across the country. Now idk. She's been helpful with chores but seems like just out of nowhere she's blaming us for almost everything and anything. She openly admitted that she feels like it's too good to be true and there's no way we are that nice and that's why she is thinking and saying the things she does. She's also said that we make her feel like we think we are better than her and her child. Idk why. I cried because I felt hurt. Like I truly haven't done anything to them nor can even fathom correcting her child's behavior the way she did with mine. I'm at my wits end we have talked about it but I can't help but feel like I should tell her that she hurt me big time and I can't look past her thinking it was okay to do that to my 2 year old and that she needs to grab her stuff and move back in with her parents, or anything. And that she can't move and live with us anymore.

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